Harry Francis Hooker

Harry Francis Hooker, 86, passed away peacefully on November 19, 2025, at the Florham Park Rehabilitation Healthcare Center, surrounded by his loving family.

Born on Staten Island, New York, to the late Harry and Kathleen Hooker, Harry grew up in the Port Richmond section of Staten Island. After a brief time in Rahway, he married the love of his life, Dorothy, and together they made Old Bridge, New Jersey their first home. In October of 1976, they settled permanently in North Plainfield, where they raised their two children, Deborah and David, and became deeply connected to the community they cherished so dearly.

Harry graduated from St. Peter's High School on Staten Island and later attended New York City College, studying business. He was then drafted into the United States Army, proudly serving in Germany as a Private First Class and as an assistant to the Army Chaplin.

A dedicated, hardworking man, Harry held a long and successful career with Unisys, a global computer company in Flemington, New Jersey where he remained for over 27 years before transitioning to Promotion Eyes, in North Plainfiled, where he worked until his retirement.

At the age of 65, Harry embarked on a second career as a paraprofessional in the North Plainfield Public Schools. Whether he was greeting parents at the door, assisting children on and off school buses, or helping inside the classroom, Harry found tremendous joy in supporting students and being part of the school community. He continued this work, finally retiring at the age of 81.

Harry lived a full and vibrant life. He was an avid reader, a passionate gardener, and a lover of arts, fashion, travel and ... good food. He enjoyed discovering new restaurants and sharing them with his family and friends. For over 20 years, he and Dorothy were proud season-ticket holders at the Paper Mill Playhouse, valuing the arts and cultural experiences they believed were so important to share with their children. Music was his lifelong passion; Harry began singing as a young man in the Troubadours, a well-known Staten Island choral group and later in life joined the choir at Watchung Avenue Presbyterian Church. He was also an active member of the Watchung Avenue Presbyterian Church's Mr. and Mrs. Club, offering his time and friendship generously.

Harry was an incredibly devoted and supportive father, always prioritizing the dreams and passions of his children. He embraced their aspirations with open arms, encouraging them to pursue their interests wholeheartedly. While he was initially hesitant about his daughter's camping adventures, his apprehensions quickly faded as he witnessed Deb's transformation into a talented Girl Scout camp director. Over time, Harry became her biggest fan, attending camp events, cheering her work, and proudly sharing stories of her accomplishments. Likewise he passionately supported his son's career as a basketball coach. He made it a point to attend every game, applauding enthusiastically from the sidelines. His son thrived under this support, feeling empowered to lead with confidence and creativity, always dressing the part, and knowing that his father was there to encourage him through both the triumphs and challenges of his coaching journey. His unwavering belief in their abilities and passion for their work inspired not only his children but also those around them, leaving a lasting legacy of love, support, and encouragement.

Harry cherished the time spent with his grandchildren during family events, finding immense joy in sharing stories and witnessing their growth. He delighted in attending Cort's theater performances, beaming with pride as he watched his grandson shine on stage, captivating audiences with his talent. Max's artistic pursuits also filled Harry with admiration; he loved seeing the creativity expressed through Max's artwork and often encouraged him to explore this passion. These precious moments strengthened the family bond and allowed Harry to pass down his values of love and support, fostering a nurturing environment for his loved ones.

Harry is survived by his beloved wife of 56 years, Dorothy, whom he married on July 13, 1969; his loving children, Deborah Hooker and her best friend (his Polish daughter) Kasia Golas, and David Hooker and his wife Maureen; and his cherished grandsons, Cort and Max Hooker. He is also survived by his brother, Richard Hooker.

Family and friends are invited to attend visitation on Sunday, November 23, from 1:00 to 4:00 PM at Higgins Home for Funerals, 752 Mountain Boulevard, Watchung, New Jersey. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Monday, November 24, at 10:00 AM at St. Vincent Martyr Catholic Church, 26 Green Village Road, Madison, New Jersey. Please meet directly at the church on Monday; there will be no services at the funeral home prior to the Mass. Interment will follow immediately at Evergreen Cemetery in Hillside, New Jersey.

Harry will be remembered for his kindness, his faith, his work ethic, and most of all, his deep love for his family. His legacy will live on in the countless lives he touched.