Henry Hoke III

Henry Hoke III obituary, Laconia, NH

Henry Hoke III

Henry Hoke Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Wilkinson-Beane-Simoneau-Paquette Funeral Home on Aug. 26, 2025.

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GILFORD ---- Henry Reed Hoke III, 74 passed away in Concord Hospital – Concord on Thursday, August 21, 2025.
Hank was born on April 25, 1951, in Holis, NY, the son of the late Henry Reed Hoke, Jr. and Jean (Demmert) Hoke.
He lived a full and active life, embracing every opportunity to be outdoors and pursuing his lifelong passion for boating and automobiles. His enduring connection to Camp Tecumseh remained a central thread throughout the years, beginning as a camper and later continuing as a counselor and dedicated volunteer. Music was another of his great joys, and he shared his talent as the drummer for the band Rubber Band, where his energy and rhythm left a lasting impression on all who heard him play. He enjoyed a successful career, retiring in 2006 as Vice President of Hoke Communications, and gave generously of his time as a volunteer fireman for more than a decade in Garden City, New York. Above all, he will be remembered for his generous spirit, his kindness, and the enthusiasm with which he approached every chapter of life.
Hank is survived by his loving wife, Katherine (Donovan) Hoke, daughters Emily (Michael) Tullo, Wantagh, NY and Lucy (Dave) Lynch, Baldwin, MD and Robert (Julie) Rotchford, Dedham, MA, Brian (Courtney) Rotchford, Hanover, NH and Barbara (Kevin) Elbrecht, New Hartford, NY, grandchildren James, Ryan, Braeden, Berkely, Matthew, Aidan, Sean, Owen, Katherine, Colin, Jake, and Cameron. He also leaves behind his sister Wendy (Stuart) Boysen, his special cousin Jean Farquhar, and his nephews Andrew, Scott, Mark and Todd.
Calling Hours will be held on Saturday, August 30, 2025, from 11:00am-1:00pm in the Carriage House at the Wilkinson-Beane-Simoneau-Paquette Funeral Home,164 Pleasant Street, Laconia, NH.
A Memorial Service will follow at 1:00 P.M. also at the funeral home. Please bring your best stories and memories of Hank to share.
For those who wish, memorial donations may be made in Henry's name to the Alzheimer's Association, PO Box 96011, Washington, DC 20090-6011.
Wilkinson-Beane-Simoneau-Paquette Funeral Home & Cremation Services/603Cremations.com, 164 Pleasant St., Laconia, NH, 03246, is assisting the family with arrangements. For more information and to view an online memorial, please visit wilkinsonbeane.com.

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Wilkinson-Beane-Simoneau-Paquette Funeral Home

164 Pleasant Street P.O. Box 67, Laconia, NH 03246

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