Herbert M. "Herb" Kopf Jr.

Herbert M. "Herb" Kopf Jr. obituary, Amherst, NH

Herbert M. "Herb" Kopf Jr.

Herbert M. Kopf Obituary

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Herbert M. Kopf Jr, 84, of Amherst, NH died May 26, after a battle with prostate cancer. Born in NYC, Aug 3, 1935, he was the son of Herb and Ruth (Hammond) Kopf. Herb lived on the West Side where his dad was a college football coach until moving to Newton, MA at age 10. Herb graduated Worcester Academy in 1954 and Tufts University in 1960, where he was a quarterback on the football team. He interrupted his time at Tufts, serving two years in the U.S. Army, stationed in Germany. Herb was married in 1965 to the love of his life, Lucille (Bernier) Kopf (predeceased 2012) and they lived in Amherst, NH for 47 years. In retirement Herb was the number one Red Sox and Patriots fan and donated much of his time for his favorite cause, The Amherst Lions Club. He is survived by his partner, Pat Harrison of Amherst; his son, Herb III and wife Karen, of Needham, MA and daughter, Kathleen and husband Larry Brackett, of Manassas, VA. He is also survived by his brother-law, Roland Bernier of Little River, SC. Papa was proud of his 6 grand kids, Sandra, Thomas, and Jack Brackett along with Herb IV, Sully and Owen Kopf. Herb was also the proud uncle to 6 nephews and nieces. A Memorial Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated at 10 am in St. Patrick Church, Milford on Friday, July 31st.. Burial with military honors will follow in Amherst Village Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Amherst Lion's Club, PO Box 1105, Amherst, NH 03031 or go to http://www.e-clubhouse.org/sites/amherstnh Lambert Funeral Home & Crematory, Manchester, is assisting with arrangements. To send a message of condolence, please go to www.lambertfuneralhome.com.

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June 7, 2020

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June 2, 2020

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Richard Parker

June 7, 2020

God Bless you all, Herb was a good friend..I was also his Electrician..

Robert & Carol Baechle

June 3, 2020

Dear Family & Pat, Herb was such a funny guy and a dear friend of ours. I remember well the night of the fire to his home. We got a call and then he spent the night at our house. He still had that great big smile on his face even at a time of sadness. We were happy to help him out and I think I even sent him home with two different colored socks as we shared some of Bob's clothes with him. I also remember him bringing me two items of your Mom's, to me, to remember Lucy by. I still have them, of course. Herb was blessed to have a loving wife of many years, a wonderful family who he always talked about and then later in life blessed again to have a caring partner Pat for his last years. He will be sadly missed by us for sure. We send our deepest sympathy to all of you.

Debra Butcher

June 2, 2020

Heaven just gained a gentleman who brought kindness to all he knew and loved. We will miss you Herb.

Charles Vars

June 1, 2020

What a close cherished friendship we had. Our deepest sympathies Herbie and Kathleen. We spent numerous fun vacations with Pat and your Dad over the past years. He consistently expressed his love for his kids and grand-kids. I already miss that 2-3 phone calls from him per day. He is now without constant pain and is reunited with your Mom...he was looking forward to that!
Charlie and Rolinda

Bill Loscocco Loscocco

June 1, 2020

Herb was a great friend . He always had a wise crack to bring a smile to your face
My prayers are with family and friends.

Rest in peace my friend!

Ed & Halyna Sorensen

May 30, 2020

We were saddened to hear that our friend Herb has passed. It's as if it were just yesterday that Herb and Lucy came to dinner to our home in Florida for my famous Roasted Cuban Pork Delight. That was such a grand day, one that will always be remembered with lots of fun, laughter and good friendship... not to forget the great wine! Herb, you will be missed by all...

Richard Roy Mathews

May 29, 2020

We offer our thoughts and prayers for you and your family. Herb Jr.

Krys Donati

May 28, 2020

What a great guy! We will miss him and his wonderful and interesting stories. He had a beautiful smile and twinkle in his eyes. Social occasions were always fun! Our sincere condolences to Pat and Herb and Lucy's family.

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