James F. Clare Jr.

James F. Clare Jr. obituary, Bolingbrook, IL

James F. Clare Jr.

James Clare Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by McCauley-Sullivan Funeral Home & Crematorium on Sep. 24, 2023.

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James Francis Clare, beloved husband, son, father, grampy and coach,
passed away on September 23,2023 at his home surrounded by family.
Jim was born on June 2, 1965 to James and Lillian Clare in Quincy, Massachusetts.
Jim spent the majority of his childhood in Weymouth, Massachusetts where he graduated
from Weymouth North High School with the class of 1983. Following his time in Weymouth, Jim graduated from the United States Military Academy at West Point as a Second Lieutenant in 1987.
After graduation, Jim married the love of his life, Cheryl Bersani.
Jim spent his military career in Hanau, Germany and Fort Sill Oklahoma where he
reached the rank of Captain in the United States Army. After a successful military career,
Jim moved to Bolingbrook, IL where he had a longtime career in sales and most recently
as an employee of DELL-EMC.
Jim was predeceased by his father, James Francis Clare Sr., and his grandparents,
Francis and Helen Clare and Patrick and Lucy D'Angelo.
He is survived by his wife of 36 years, Cheryl of IL, mother, Lillian of FL,
his children, Ryan and his wife Denise of CO, Kevin of MA, and Kyle of IA.
Jim is the cherished Grampy of Marina.
Aside from his family, Jim's greatest devotion was the game of hockey.
He started his coaching career as a volunteer hockey coach for his son's hockey teams.
Quickly after, he became the President of the Sabres youth hockey organization
and continued to serve selflessly from 2003 to 2016 long after his sons
were too old to play for them anymore. Most recently, Jim coached the 2023 U19 girls hockey team.
He served the greater Illinois hockey region at the Amateur Hockey Association of Illinois
as a Director and as the Vice-President of Coaching and Membership Development.
At the national level, he served as USA Hockey ADM Coordinator for Illinois,
USA Hockey Associate Coach in Chief and USA Hockey Coach in Chief for Illinois.
Jim's contributions to the local, state and national hockey world span decades.
Jim's signature look of a USA hockey jacket, a West Point hat and a large cup of coffee
in hand will be missed.
Visitation Tuesday, September 26th from 4:00pm-8:00pm.
Funeral Wednesday, 9:45am at McCauley-Sullivan Funeral Home 530 W. Boughton Rd. Bolingbrook, IL. 60440 to St. Francis of Assisi Church, Mass 10:30am.
Interment Massachusetts National Cemetery at a late date.
In lieu of flowers the family requests that donations be made to the
Jim Clare memorial fund for hockey players.
The fund will be used to support hockey players throughout the country.
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November 14, 2023

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Anita Gualtieri

November 14, 2023

My daughter and I had the honour to meet Jim at the hockey night in Boston tournament 2 years ago. She was an extra and we bonded with coach Jim right away. So much that we spent the week end chatting and kept a friendship until he passed away. I have been sending him pics and updates on sofia and knew how proud he was of her. He will be missed eventhough we met him for a short time. He was a special person who will be missed. Wish you all strength., love and peace. Your memories will last a lifetime.

Janet Haraf

September 25, 2023

Where do I begin....Coach Jim was my daughter Sam's 1st travel hockey Coach for Sabres 14U back in 2017. This man was such an inspiration and role model for his hockey girls. That was the best year my daughter had in travel and also for us parents. Even when my daughter moved up to 19U, Coach Jim would still come to the rink to watch her and the other girls play, they were all like his own children. Once Covid hit plus a hand injury my daughter stopped playing but Coach Jim would try and get her to play again before she aged out, especially since he was coaching the 19U girls at the time, he wanted her back on his team, unfortunately she never did play again. He even came to her graduation party in 2021. Looking back at memories I wished him a Happy Birthday on Facebook this year and his reply was "Thanks Janet, give my girl Sam a hug for me" this is the wonderful, kind, generous person he was and we will all remember. He would even text us hockey Moms on Mother's Day just to wish us a Happy Mother's Day and also to ask about the family. We are heartbroken but are blessed with such wonderful memories we will cherish forever. Please know we are thinking and praying for the entire Clare family. RIP Coach, you will be missed by so many!

Love...Janet, Jim & Sam Haraf

Jeff Saliba

September 25, 2023

So very sorry to hear of Jim´s passing. I have fond memories of playing high school hockey together, especially when we´re lucky enough to play in the old Boston Garden.
Rest in peace Jim

Janet Lynn Haraf

September 25, 2023

Where do I begin....Coach Jim was a wonderful man overall. He was my daughter Sam's 1st travel coach for the Sabres 14U back in 2017. That was the best year we ever had while she played. The memories we made were ones we will never forget. He was such an inspiration and role model for the girls. He loved all the girls like they were his own kids. My daughter then moved up to 19U but Coach Jim would always make it a point to come watch her and the other girls play when he could, especially when they made it to state. He was always around cheering them on. My daughter only played for a few years then Covid hit and she had a hand injury and never went back to playing. Coach Jim tried to get her to play one last year before she aged out, at that time he was coaching the 19U girls and wanted her back on his team but he never did get his way unfortunately. Even after hockey was over for her he continued to ask about her to see how she was doing, he even came to her graduation party in 2021. This man cared so much for others, this is who he was as a human. He would group text us Moms on Mother's Day just to wish us a Happy Mother's Day and ask about the family, always thinking of others. Looking back at memories...I wished him a Happy Birthday on Facebook this year, he comes back with "Thanks Janet, give my girl Sam a hug for me" again....always thinking of his girls. We are heartbroken to lose such a wonderful man but are blessed with all the memories we have of him. Please know we are thinking and praying for the entire Clare family.

Love...Janet, Jim & Sam Haraf

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