James Daniel "Jimmy" Disco

James Daniel "Jimmy" Disco obituary, Tyler, TX

James Daniel "Jimmy" Disco

James Disco Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Boren-Conner Funeral Home - Bullard on Jan. 23, 2026.
James Daniel Disco, 68, of Tyler, passed away on Wednesday morning, January 21, 2026, at his home. A Memorial service will be held on Tuesday morning, January 27, 2026, at Boren-Conner Funeral Home in Bullard, to begin at 10:00am. Chaplain Bryan Grant will officiate.

James Daniel Disco, fondly known as Jimmy to his family and friends, and as Coach Disco to his students, went to Eternal Rest on the morning of January 21, 2025, in Tyler, Texas.

Jimmy was an extremely handsome and an extraordinary son, brother, uncle, great uncle, and Coach who had a heart of pure gold, the most beautiful blue eyes that always twinkled, a charming and charismatic smile, a deeply kind and extremely generous personality that always thought of others first, a sweetness and a gentleness and an innocence that touched the hearts of all who knew him, a hilarious sense of humor and an incredible and contagious laugh that will be missed by all who loved him so very much.

Jimmy was a man of extraordinary character. He was a Southern gentleman, a man of true honor.

Jimmy had an innate athleticism that not only helped him to be a superb athlete and coach but also helped him to go the distance and defy all odds. Jimmy was a fighter to the very end of his days. He exemplified true grit and was an inspiration to all.

Coach Disco was beloved by his students. He gave whatever he could to them. He wanted to teach his students lessons they could use for a lifetime. He was a superb role model because he modeled goodness and excellence. Even in the late stages of his battle with a very aggressive form of cancer, Coach Disco was thinking of his students. From his hospital bed, he organized for his students to be at the 2024 Dallas Open Tennis Tournament. He made it possible for his students to be on the court at the Dallas Open for the coin toss, and he courageously showed up on the day for them.

James was a multitalented visionary who excelled at whatever endeavor he embarked upon. He was written about, and quoted, in numerous media outlets including the BBC, NPR, and the Dallas Morning News.

James had a dogged determination that equally matched his intense passion, his creative genius, and his extremely high intellect. He was the best tennis coach around, the Tennis Program Director at George Banner Dealey Montessori School in Dallas, Texas, an author of graphic novels, a comic book creator, a human rights activist and event coordinator, a member of the Professional Tennis Registry, a member of the Dallas Tennis Association, a member of the United States Tennis Association (USTA), a member of the Texas Tennis Coaches Association.

Jimmy loved his large, close-knit, Italian- Hungarian family. He enjoyed playing croquet with his family, playing tennis, basketball, swimming, barbecuing, and watching his beloved Falcons and any John Wayne or Clint Eastwood Westerns. He dearly loved his dog Little Guy. Jimmy bravely fought, and never once complained, as he endured over a two-year arduous battle with cancer. Even while on his cancer journey, he was working on his next graphic novel to help teach kids lessons on faith, hope and grit.

For those of us who were blessed to know this extremely rare and beautiful tender soul, we will miss him and love him forever. We will gather at Jimmy's place and will sing his praise. He was one of a kind.

James Daniel Disco is predeceased by his father, Frank Andrew Disco, his two great nephews William Roy Gaddy IV and Theodore Andrew Stevens, his dog Little Guy, and his mother Paskalena Femia Disco.

He is survived by his siblings: Mary Frances Hibbert (David Wilson Hibbert of Lilburn, GA), Elizabeth Ann Disco-Shearer (Theodore Robert Essex of Tyler, TX), Katherine Calabria Harvey (Mortimer Frank Meadors of Clayton, GA and Parker, TX), Martin Joseph Disco (London, United Kingdom), Thomas Andrew Disco (Francie Ingram Disco of Kennesaw, Georgia), Barbara Ellen Disco Chacon (Diego Adrian Chacon of Folsom, California).

His nieces and nephews: Charles Garrison Allan (Jia Pang of Dallas, Texas), Julian Michael Calabria (Kathleen Anne Calabria of Murphy, Texas), Patrick Thomas Calabria (Amanda Kay Calabria of Paris, Texas), Melanie Diane Disco (Timothy James Stevens of Atlanta, Georgia), Katherine Disco Gaddy (William Roy Gaddy III of Kennesaw, Georgia), Emilio Marcello Disco (London, United Kingdom), Emilia Evangelista Disco (London, United Kingdom).

His great nieces and nephews: Gina Gabriella Calabria, Ava Kaitlin Calabria, Jacob William Calabria, Audrey Anne Calabria, Ryan Lee Calabria, Katie Claire Calabria, Tucker Frank Gaddy, Jana Diane Stevens, Angelina Rose Stevens, Julia Charlotte Stevens, Alese Ningqin Allan.

His aunt: Ann Femia Ziccarelli, cousins and Boris, Firefly, Izzy.

Please send floral contributions to Boren-Conner Funeral Home in Bullard.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

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February 3, 2026

Kathy Harvey posted to the memorial.

January 31, 2026

Chaz Allan posted to the memorial.

January 30, 2026

Elizabeth Disco-Shearer posted to the memorial.

Kathy Harvey

February 3, 2026

Your love of tennis and the kids you coached will be greatly missed. What an honor to attend the Dallas Tennis Open with you and your students at SMU. It was a spectacular event from the coin toss to bringing all your students onto the court to be recognized. Nothing but pure love.

Chaz Allan

January 31, 2026

I love Uncle Jimmy more than I could ever properly express. He was an uncle and a best friend all in 1. He was a fun, joyful guy with a child like innocence, heart of gold, and contagious spontaneous energy

Elizabeth Disco-Shearer

January 30, 2026

You always loved sunsets and hope you are enjoying the glorious sunsets of heaven.

Jacob William Calabria

January 28, 2026

You were the best Uncle Jimmy! You gave us so many life lessons, how to speak kindly, how to enjoy sports, how to laugh, how to give, how to be resilient and most of all how to love! We will miss you but you will be in our hearts forever. Love, GBC

Patrick Calabria

January 27, 2026

James you will be missed. May Jesus welcome you with open arms.

Eternal rest grant unto them, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon them. May they rest in peace. Amen

Ava Calabria

January 27, 2026

A great tribute to one of my heroes. Love you Uncle Jimmy!

Mark Stevenson

January 27, 2026

Coach James was a blessing to our boys and all the kids at Dealey. We was always kind and a funny! He will be missed.

Yurisa Ibarra

January 27, 2026

Coach Disco was such a sweetheart to our late daughter Isabel Emma Ibarra. May he rest in eternal peace

Memorial Tree

The Brown Family

Sent Sympathy Gifts including Trees

Stacey Schiffour-Brown

January 27, 2026

Our family met Coach Disco when Ezekiel was a new student in seventh grade at Dealy Montessori and he signed up to take tennis after school. He joined JTT Tennis through Coach Disco, who became a close friend and mentor, even hiring Ezekiel to be his helper with the younger kids on Saturdays through his high school career (he is wrapping up his senior year at Booker T. Washington in the music department.)
Coach Disco and the rest of the kids affectionately referred to him as `Big Boy´ and working with Coach helped Ezekiel to develop wonderful skills of communication, team-building, and confidence.
Coach Disco stayed so strong and positive through his arduous cancer fight, and he was such a great light and inspiration to us all during this time. He stayed engaged with our family, even writing several amazing recommendation letters for Ezekiel this past Fall, as he is presently auditioning for competitive college music programs in & out of state (Coach was a real music fan, and came out to watch Ezekiel play with some of his bands a couple times around the metroplex area.) The ultimate encourager, Coach had a way of making you feel seen and supported if you were one of his friends. James also had a heart of pure gold and a radiant kindness that I see in my son and I know will continue to live on through him.
The last time we saw Coach here in Dallas before he moved back to Tyler, Ezekiel had brought one of his graphic novels up to be personally signed at the hospital. The nurse had just fallen in love with Coach Disco (of course!) and she was blown away by his novel and his story of working with The Lost Boys of the Sudan. Ezekiel had Coach sign his book and gave it to the nurse happily, both of them knowing what a wonderful gift it was to give above receiving on that day. That´s the legacy of Coach Disco-selfless love, tireless community building and an effervescence of kindness & connection in everything he touched. See you on the other side, Coach, we will love you FOREVER & ALWAYS.

YING LI

January 27, 2026

My daughter learnt with Coach from 1st grade to 8th grade at Dealey (except Covid period). Coach brought tennis to all the kids at Dealey. It was not just tennis; it was also connection, fun, love of life. Coach always encouraged students to participate in matches. He emphasized that it was ok if you did not win; it was to exercise, practice and improve. Students also loved the candy, prizes and fun end of year parties.
My daughter found the book Coach wrote--Echoes of the Lost Boys of Sudan. She was so happy to be part of the 2024 Dallas Open coin toss.
Coach also told us about a project after he connected with a movie making person.
We wish we had a chance to visit him.

We will forever remember the kind and loving instructions and encouragement Coach gave the students. Coach James Disco will live forever in us with his faith, courage, resilience, passion, generosity and being the change he wanted to see.
We are eternally grateful to Coach and are inspired to embrace, love and live life and make the world a better place that Coach would love to see.

Ava Calabria

January 26, 2026

We love you Uncle Jimmy and we will miss you. We had so many fun times with you. This photo was a great memory. The sign says it all.

J Calabria

January 26, 2026

A fierce competitor with a heart of gold. I will miss his contagious laughter and great attitude so much. He always believed the best was yet to come. He was so kind and so giving. He was the one and only Uncle Jimmy - Uncle J!

Shedrack Anderson

January 26, 2026

Sending love peace and comfort to the family. We had profound conversations on the Tao of tennis, life and the arts. Legend gone too soon. Proud to continue his passion and dedication.

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Tom and Laurie Hibbert

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Elizabeth Disco-Shearer

January 23, 2026

Jimmy, you were such a profile in courage. You went through so very much these last two years with your arduous battle with cancer. Your strength and unwavering spirit inspired everyone around you, showing us all what true resilience looks like. I will miss you so very much, little brother, but your life’s work will live on through the legacy of your coaching and creative genius. Fly high!

Treasured And Beloved Bouquet

Firefly, Boris, and Izzy

Sent Sympathy Gifts including Flowers

Kathy Harvey

January 23, 2026

Jimmy was a gift . A beautiful soul. He will be forever missed by all those who loved him.

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