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James Hersey Massey Jr.

1940 - 2024

James Hersey Massey Jr. obituary, 1940-2024, King And Queen County, VA

BORN

1940

DIED

2024

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James Massey Obituary

MASSEY, James Hersey Jr., 83, of Richmond, VA, passed away peacefully on February 20, 2024.

Jim was predeceased by his parents, James Hersey Massey Sr. and Marian Thurston Massey. He is survived by his wife, Wanda Tomlin Massey and his four children, Rene Lynn Massey, Sherry Kay Massey, James Hersey Massey III and Charles Dandridge Massey and his grandchildren, Danielle Corbin Ashjian, Monica Blair Ashjian, Riley Elizabeth Massey, Hayden Dandridge Massey, Julia Grace Chung and Ava Isabelle Chung and his sisters, Duanne Massey Hawkins and Jane Massey-Redd.

Jim was born into a large and loving family on September 10, 1940. Growing up on a farm in King and Queen County, Virginia, he became proficient in many life skills from which he benefited his entire life. He would probably say his first big success was winning a blue ribbon at a local fair as he proudly showed a calf he had raised. As a teenager, he learned basic masonry skills while working for a local bricklayer.

His first grade teacher was his mother, who instilled his love of reading. He graduated from Pleasant Hill High School in 1958 where he excelled in all sports. He attended Bridgewater College and was a veteran of the United States Army.

Jim went on to a successful 29-year career in banking and technology, starting with United Virginia Bank which was renamed Crestar Bank and later merged with SunTrust Bank.

Jim met the love of his life, Wanda, during high school. Even though they attended different schools, their connection formed through various high school sporting events and social gatherings. They were married on September 16, 1961, and celebrated 62 years of loving and devoted marriage.

In 2001, Jim retired and spent time as a management consultant, refreshing his piano playing skills, traveling with Wanda and spending time as a devoted grandfather with his grandchildren. He will be fondly remembered by many for his business acumen and leadership, his love of God, music and his family, both immediate and extended.

A funeral service will be held at 1:30 p.m. on Sunday, February 25, 2024, at Beulah Church with Rev. Wade Inge officiating. The family will receive friends from 4 to 6 p.m. on Saturday, February 24, 2024, at Bristow-Faulkner Funeral Home, Saluda Chapel. Internment will follow at the church cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to Beulah Church Cemetery Fund, care of Bill Massey, PO Bx 1070, Urbanna, VA 23175. For additional information, please call 757-870-7439.

Faulkner Funeral Homes, Bristow-Faulkner Chapel, Saluda is assisting the family.

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Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Feb. 24, 2024.

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Earl Schrag

February 25, 2024

Jim was a great teammate and manager! Over the years, I enjoyed working for him and with him on various projects. Pat Gregory and I also had the pleasure of entertaining Jim, his family, and his friends in WestPoint, VA as members of the Fourth Generation. About a year ago, I was fortunate enough to run into Jim and his daughter at Memorial Regional Hospital. My thoughts are with Wanda, his children, grandchildren, and his many friends.

Katrina T. McMillan

February 24, 2024

To the Massey family:
I am saddened to hear of Jim´s passing. He was such a kind and professional leader, setting high standards of excellence. I am thankful for his mentoring, leadership, and friendship. Jim will truly be missed by our Crestar/SunTrust IT Family. Sending my condolences to Jim´s family

Ellen Vance

February 24, 2024

Jim was an incredibly adept manager and a treasured colleague at the bank. A great mentor, he hired smart people first and foremost, then helped them develop any missing skill sets. He was highly regarded both by his peers and his subordinates. Jim left an indelible mark and will definitely be missed. My prayers and condolences for all of Jim´s family.
Ellen

Chris Kelly

February 24, 2024

Sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for your family. Jim was a great co-worker. Although I never worked for him I enjoyed the many projects we worked on together. He was a great mentor to many folks.

Susan Staub Byrd

February 24, 2024

To the Massey family, I am so sorry for the loss of your husband and father. He was a nice man and a wonderful example of a father. You all are in my thoughts and prayer.

Calvin Eaton

February 24, 2024

Wanda and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Jim was one of the finest gentlemen I have known in my career and personal life. He took special pleasure in solving difficult business problems and enabling the personal growth and development of co-workers. I will miss his enduring friendship.

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