James M. Shear

James M. Shear obituary, Binghamton, NY

James M. Shear

James Shear Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Savage-DeMarco Funeral Service - Binghamton on Aug. 16, 2024.

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James Shear Obituary
James Michael Shear, 84, of Binghamton, NY, passed away on August 13, 2024.
We mourn the passing of Jim Shear-beloved father, teacher, mentor, and friend.
Jim composed the following text, and he instructed that it be published upon his departure.
"Life is uncertain. Eat dessert first"
We, Jim's sons, John (Lynette)Jeffrey (Leila) and grandkids (Shayne, Madison and Alana), most sadly note Jim's passing on
There is no doubt that we and others who knew him well will gladly recognize his very loud, deep and immediately recognizable voice in our heads for a long time to come.
Jim's dad, George (our Grampa/Greatgrampa) once told his son that, "A person without enemies is a person without character." He also warned him that by this measure he should not strive to amass too much "character". Jim was rarely afraid to say what had to be said, especially when others did not have to courage to do so. He was actually incredibly even-tempered and the louder he barked, the more you knew that he was only joking. It was a "JIM" thing you wouldn't understand
His older brother, Richard, was the Teddy Bear in the family, Jim was The Voice. Jim's art/creative skills were learned from him as well as his liking for non-contact sports such as golf, tennis, darts. Jim's love of The Arts and Performing Arts was given to him by his Mom, Fan, his woodworking and tool skills by his dad.
In addition to the values instilled in him by his parents and family, his thoughts and life philosophies were emblazoned everywhere: on his tee shirts and sweatshirts, all over the bulletin boards and wall of his workshop and living room. Where jim was, there was: clutter, humor, snacks, puzzles, puns, St. Bernard hair, the music of Miller, Liza Minelli, Wonder, Chapin, Streisand, Sinatra, etc., the visual work of Picasso, Escher, Van Gogh, Utrillo, Lewis Carroll, Neil SImon, Barishnikov, the words of Einstein, Dan Brown, Tom Clancy, the theatre of Rodgers and Hammerstein, Kander and Ebb, the echo of the "F" word always hanging in the air.
Additionally: "two paths diverged I took the one less traveled by and that has made all of the difference." (Frost); "Lead, follow, or get out of the way!" (St. Bernard); "Question authority" (Einstein), "Home is where the dog is." Bailey (Beast);"What you can't hide PERFECTLY make obvious! (Design principle); "Welcome I hope you like dog hair! (St. Bernard)
"I Did it My Way" (Tiddenbroekvia Frank Sinatra); "Mixed emotions are what you feel when you see your mother-in-law go off a cliff in your Cadillac." comedian Henny Youngman"; Caution: Dog can't hold its licker!! (Author unknown); "Those who can, teach! Those who can't make laws about teaching." (Author unknown); "Go hang a salami I'm a lasagna hog." (Favorite palindrome); "Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds" (Einstein) "Tomorrow or the next day I have to stop procrastinating." (Favorite jim motto)
Jim always had time for anyone willing to learn, but also knew that you should "never try to teach a pig to sing; it's a waste of your time and it annoys the pig."
We'll forever thank him for teaching us how to create "just one more" foods, like Peeps, where you keep taking "just one more" until you get to the point where you say, "no point in leaving just 3."Ya loved 'im or ya disliked 'im. Not many (if any) in-betweeners. We, (his family, friends,workers, and former students) will recognize that voice in our heads, and smile.L'Chaim!Jim has requested that there be no funeral. A celebration of his life will be held at a later date. Obituary also online at www.TiersNews.com. Please express condolences online at www.SavageFS.com.
Arrangements were entrusted to SAVAGE-DeMarco Funeral Service in Binghamton.
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May 20, 2025

Neil Fleischer posted to the memorial.

October 19, 2024

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August 23, 2024

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Neil Fleischer

May 20, 2025

I remember Jim Shear fondly as my director of the musical theater production "Two by Two" in Binghamton back in 1979. Although I only knew Jim briefly, he was one of the most delightful people I´ve ever worked with. Rest in peace, Jim...and thank you.

Diane Flynn

October 19, 2024

I enjoyed working at CF with Jim very much! Jim was very entertaining you always knew when he was around. He added a lot of EXCITEMENT to our department, never a dull moment with Jim. To his family, I am so sorry for your loss.

George Thomas

August 23, 2024

I had many teachers, coaches and instructors at CF. Jim Shear was in the handful who were special, who taught me more than I realized, until I was older. Now I hold them all in the highest esteem. Jim was a set design genius. He was a great teacher and friend. My life is richer because I had him as a teacher and director. RIP Jim.

Mary McGowan

August 17, 2024

Thomas Martin

August 17, 2024

Jim, "the Boss" was my life long friend. He was one of the best human beings I know. His biology class and his humor were so memorable. He hooked me on Upstagers and guided me through 6 different productions and ultimately to awards I never fathomed. He will be missed for the rest of my days on this earth. Thank You, Boss, You were the best! God Bless You

Heather Guido (Williams)

August 17, 2024

Mr. Shear was one of a kind..he will be remembered fondly. Hope he is resting peacefully. Condolences to the family.

Mary McGowan

August 17, 2024

Jim Shear was my high school Biology teacher, he was a great teacher. Jim, as the Upstagers´ Artistic Director, gave me the confidence to act, sing and dance and instilled in me a deep love of the theater. I went on to devote much of my life to studying and working in the performing arts. Jim was a brilliant stage craftsman, director and collaborator. His sense of humor was boundless. With deep gratitude I offer sincere condolences to his family.

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