James Harkness "Jay" Stoehr III

James Harkness "Jay" Stoehr III obituary, Cincinnati, OH

James Harkness "Jay" Stoehr III

James Stoehr Obituary

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James "Jay" Harkness Stoehr III., beloved husband of Amy Stoehr for forty years, died peacefully surrounded by his loved ones on February 24th, 2024. He was a devoted husband, father, son, brother, grandfather, friend, and business leader.
Jay was a graduate of Cincinnati Country Day School and Kalamazoo College. He was known as a cheerleader for all, and found success through others triumphs, always inquisitive and eager to pass on his learned knowledge to others. These traits remained true even through the final stages of his Alzheimer's disease. Jay continued the Stoehr legacy and was devoted to his life's work as the President and CEO of Robbins Sports Surfaces. He prided himself on doing the right thing-a core value ingrained in both his business and personal life. But above all, anyone close to him knows that sailing and his family were his true passions in life. Taking his family and friends under sail was what brought him the most joy, whether it was for an afternoon getaway or a weeklong adventure. He was also an avid skier and loved spending time in the Northwoods. Jay spent many summers in Northern Minnesota as a former camper, staff member, and board member of Camp Kooch-i-Ching; he was an integral part of founding Camp Ogichi Daa Kwe, the sister camp of Camp Kooch, where he served on the board for both Ogichi and the Camping and Education Foundation. He was an instrumental board member of Lyman Orchards, along with the Maple Flooring Manufacturing Association (MFMA), where he served as president.
Jay is survived by his loving wife Amy Waller Stoehr, children James IV, Sydney Whedon (Samuel), Madeline Stoehr (Nathan Osborn), and Gretchen Luthy (Cameron), as well as his loving siblings Thomas Stoehr and Katherine Mohrlang (Durrell) and his two grandchildren James Stoehr V and Dorothy Whedon. He was preceded in death by his parents James H. Stoehr Jr. and Olga Conroy Keumpel.
Please join us in a celebration of life at St. Timothy's Episcopal Church (8101 Beechmont Ave, Cincinnati, OH 45255) on March 16th at 11:00 am. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made in Jay's name to the Brain Support Network (P.O. Box 7264 Menlo Park, CA 94026), the Camping and Education Foundation (3515 Michigan Ave, Cincinnati, OH 45208) and the Cincinnati Nature Center (4949 Tealtown Rd, Milford, OH 45150). Online condolences are welcome at www.tpwhite.com.

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Bruce Rice

March 12, 2024

Jay gave me my first job as a floor related installer. I worked as a helper with his very good friend, and mine, John Sutton, at a Ladies College installing prototype racquetball courts. I made a career installing, sanding and finishing hardwood floors for 35 years and owe it all to Jay and Cincinnati Floor Company. Bruce Rice

Jim McKee

March 11, 2024

En route from Strasbourg to Nancy, France to see Peter Gabriel in concert late 1978.
With fond memories & condolences to all his loved ones.
Jim McKee K`80

Neil Moss

March 7, 2024

Neil Moss
Condolences to the family for your loss. It´s a sad day for the family and a huge loss to iur industry. I worked for Jay for a few short years and was a neighbor. Like so many that grew up in the wood industry, he, like his father overflowed with integrity and curiosity. He´ll be missed.

Sue

March 6, 2024

Jay was fun, full of life and love for everyone! We thought we might have lived closer and cherished that possibility. Every time we met at the farm it was like picking right up where we had left off. Truly admire you and your whole family.
We are so sorry for your tremendous love, Amy and kids.
Love, Sue and Greg Groh

Janet Lyman-McCann

March 2, 2024

God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Thinking of you Amy. You are in my prayers. Love, Janet

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