Janet Anderson "Jan" Lightner

1939 - 2021

Janet Anderson "Jan" Lightner obituary, 1939-2021

Janet Anderson "Jan" Lightner

1939 - 2021

BORN

1939

DIED

2021

Janet Lightner Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Bonney Watson Funeral Home - SeaTac from Apr. 29 to Apr. 30, 2021.
Born March 2, 1939, died peacefully at St. Joseph's Hospital on April 26, 2021. She is survived by her son, Rob (Jessie Brown) and daughter, Jill (Tom Marshall).

Jan Lightner majored in Speech Pathology and Counseling Psychology at the University of Nebraska Lincoln, where she received her BSc in 1961 and MA in 1963. She worked as a soda jerk, a lifeguard, and a jazz drummer before college graduation, and saved up from her first post-college job as a speech therapist to spend six weeks in Europe and then attend grad school. She fought for pay equity, worked to prevent violence against women and kids in the rural south, and defended free speech in King County libraries in the face of death threats. Beginning in 1958 she was highly active in her sorority Alpha Xi Delta, ultimately serving a term as National Membership Vice President and helping establish several chapters across the country in the 1970s and 1980s.

At Jan's request, there will not be a service. The family encourages anyone who would like to make a donation to send it to the Jan and Gene Lightner Scholarship Fund, University of Nebraska Foundation, 1010 Lincoln Mall, Suite 300, Lincoln, NE 68508.

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September 11, 2021

Lee Ann posted to the memorial.

May 13, 2021

Elizabeth Klein posted to the memorial.

April 29, 2021

Bonney Watson Funeral Home - SeaTac posted an obituary.

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Lee Ann

September 11, 2021

A brilliant gal and a great Sorority Sister.
Lee Ann, University NE
Graduated in 1963

Elizabeth Klein

May 13, 2021

Jan was a delight I throughly enjoyed in Book Club. Such a lovely, funny, sharp soul. I will miss her.

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