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Jay Vining Obituary
1956 - 2022
Jay Andrew Vining, age 65, of Hamden passed away on January 26, 2022. Born in New Haven on June 22, 1956, he was the son of the late Richard J. Vining, Sr. and Mary Jean Vining Sweeney. Jay is survived by his sister Susan (Charles) Vining of Cheshire; his brother Brian (Beth) Vining of Uncasville; niece Margaret Vining of New London; and many other family members and friends, especially Maria Calabrese. Jay was predeceased by his brother Richard J. Vining, Jr. Jay was a Hamden resident most of his life and graduated from Hamden High School. He attended Central Connecticut State University. Jay was an Auto Sales and Leasing Consultant for several dealerships in New Haven County. Jay's family would like to express their heartfelt gratitude to Dr. Robert Henry, Drs. Bouvay and Nanma, and the ICU staff. Many thanks also to Ed and the team at Yale Surgical Company O. and P.
Friends may visit with Jay's family on Friday, Feb. 4th from 5:00 to 7:00 p.m. at Beecher & Bennett Funeral Home, 2300 Whitney Ave., Hamden. Friends may also attend his Mass of Christian Burial Saturday at 10:00 a.m. by going directly to Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church, Hamden. Donations in Jay's memory may be made to the Hole in the Wall Camp Fund, Inc. at www.holeinthewallgang.org. To send a condolence to his family, see: www.beecherandbennett.com.
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Janet DeMarsilis
February 9, 2022
My sincere condolences to Susan& Brian.
ALWAYS loved being in Jay´s company. He made you happy through laughter & his incredible sense of humor. Awesome memories of working together at Fitzwilly´s
Those memories will last forever.
Rest I´m peace
Ken Seltzer
February 6, 2022
Jay was a wonderful person and I am honored to have gotten to know him over the years. He was genuine in his care for others, which extended to me. May the memories of Jay bring you lasting comfort.
Bill Dest
February 4, 2022
Sue & Brian, sorry for your loss.He was always positive.He made you feel like an old friend even it was years since we saw each other.
Jeanne verneris
February 4, 2022
So sorry for your loss
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Valerie Tuthill
February 3, 2022
So very sorry for your loss.rIP my friend.Gentle prayers to you and your family at this time and always.
Beth Wolak
February 1, 2022
Mr. Brandi was the best neighbor and friend one could wish for. I will miss him very much.
Joe Goldberg
February 1, 2022
Hugs and condolences to Susan and Brian. John was such a big part of the wonderful childhood we enjoyed in our enjoining backyards growing up in Mt Carmel. My Dad was always so amazed with young John who could read from The NY Times at the age of 3....Endless hours playing wiffle ball and football and crazy invented games.
Stephen Courtney
February 1, 2022
God bless you Jay many funny memories working together!
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