Jean Gayle Gaetano

Jean Gayle Gaetano obituary

Jean Gayle Gaetano

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25

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10:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

Church of the Holy Family

3600 Phyllis St, Endwell, NY

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25

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11:00 a.m.

Church of the Holy Family

3600 Phyllis St, Endwell, NY

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Jean Gaetano Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Pucedo Funeral Home on Nov. 22, 2025.

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Jean Gayle Gaetano, 88 of Endwell, NY, passed away peacefully at her home on November 20, 2025. She was born on August 21, 1937, to the late John and Jean Smith. She attended Scranton Technical High School and then began a career in Washington, DC. She later worked in medical records at local hospitals. Known for her warmth, dedication, and kindness. Gayle enriched the lives of those around her through family, friendship, and community. She loved her family, extended family, the gang at Jonathan's, and the ski crew at Elk Mountain. She was a second mother to many of the kids on Verna Drive and touched many lives in the best way.

Gayle is survived by her husband of 64 years, Edward J. Gaetano and sons Edward J. Gaetano, Jr., Gregory Gaetano (Jill), Gary Gaetano (Kim); three grandchildren Amelia, Gavin and Lily. Besides her parents she was predeceased by brothers, Jackie Smith and Tim J. Smith.

A Funeral Mass will be held Tuesday November 25 th at 11:00 AM at the Church of the Holy Family 3600 Phyllis St. Endwell, NY. The family will receive friends at the church on Tuesday from 10:00 AM until time of service at 11:00 AM. Burial will be at the convenience of the family.

In lieu of flowers, expressions of sympathy can be made to either Mercy House of the Southern Tier 212 N. McKinley Ave. Endicott, NY 13760 or Mom's House 770 Harry L. Drive Johnson City, NY 13790.

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Gayle was a delightful woman who I truly admired and enjoyed every moment I got to spend with her. Her sincerity was notable in all our conversations and I appreciated her very much. Always well dressed and the `hippest´ 80 something I ever met. Sending love and prayers to Ed and `the boys´ along with the beautiful grandchildren. She´s a great loss to us all
Love, Penny

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Upcoming Events

Nov

25

Visitation

10:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

Church of the Holy Family

3600 Phyllis St, Endwell, NY

Send Flowers

Nov

25

Funeral Mass

11:00 a.m.

Church of the Holy Family

3600 Phyllis St, Endwell, NY

Send Flowers

Services provided by

Pucedo Funeral Home