Jeffrey Laurence Totman

Jeffrey Laurence Totman obituary

Jeffrey Laurence Totman

Jeffrey Totman Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Meldrum Mortuary & Crematory - Mesa on Mar. 27, 2026.
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Jeffrey Laurence Totman, born October 19, 1952, in Sycamore, Illinois, passed away peacefully surrounded by family and friends on February 28, 2026. Jeff was a wonderful son, husband, brother, father, uncle and proud "P-pa," and he will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved him.Jeff was preceded in death by his parents, Gus and Lois Totman, along with many dear friends who went before him.He leaves behind his loving wife, Linda Totman his daughter, Jen Honsa (Chris); and his cherished grandchildren, Camden, Carstyn, and Cooper. Jeff also leaves behind his beloved dog, Hunter, and his grandpups, Teddy and Annie.He is also survived by his sisters-in-law Dee Elston (David), Susan Tourville, and Charlotte Showalter (Terry), and his mother-in-law Dora Tourville. Jeff will be fondly remembered by his nieces and nephew: Brandi Elston, Jake Elston (Stephany), and Niki Chapman (Eric), as well as his great-nieces Mia, Brenna Kaylee and great-nephews Ace and Cole.Jeff had a deep love for anything outdoors or any moments that brought the people he loved together. Whether on the golf course, out fishing, or simply sharing stories and laughter. Jeff recently reconnected with his cousins from Illinois and memories made will be treasured. Jeff leaves behind many great friends whom he came to know and love over the years and who will miss those Tee times.Jeff's kindness, humor, and love for his family will live on in the hearts of all who knew him.A Celebration of Life will be heldMay 17th at the Totman residence and Internment service is to be held at the Arizona National Cemetery at a later date.In Lieu of flowers we ask donations be made to the Children's Cancer Network.Childrenscancernetwork.org

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