Jesse Chouteau Donovan III

Jesse Chouteau Donovan III obituary, Perkins, OK

Jesse Chouteau Donovan III

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Jesse Donovan III Obituary

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Jesse “Reb” Donovan, 66 of Perkins, Oklahoma passed away peacefully on November 11, 2025, surrounded by family.

Born in Twentynine Palms, California to Jess and Lois (Wilson) Donovan, Reb grew up with a strong sense of loyalty, humor, and adventure that stayed with him throughout his life.

Reb graduated high school in 1978 and attended college in Martin Tennessee, where he formed lifelong friendships and created many of the stories he loved sharing.

In 1979 he returned to Carney, Oklahoma. He married Lisa Brandon in 1980 and together they welcome their daughter, Tiffany, in 1981, followed by their son Jesse, two years later.

Reb Served as a police officer for Oklahoma State University from 1987 to 1993. Among his favorite memories from those years was patrolling Lake Carl Blackwell, a job that brought him both pride and joy. He later transitioned into car sales, eventually becoming a finance manager, a role in which he excelled through his easy manner, sharp wit and ability to connect with just about anyone.

Known for his love of golf, cheering on Oklahoma State Cowboy football, and especially going out dancing, Reb embraced life with enthusiasm. He found happiness in the simple things: good company, good music, and the moments that brought people together.

Reb was proceeded in death by his dad, Jess Donovan, mom and stepdad Lois and Dale Cochran, His son, Jesse Donovan, and nephew, Bryan Donovan.

Reb is survived by his daughter, Tiffany Grimes and husband Chris, Sister Yvonne Donovan, Brother Scott Donovan and wife, Lisa, brother Lonnie Cochran, and wife Nikki. Grandchildren Breeanne Marcus and husband, Tyler, Connor Donovan, Gage Novotny, Blakely Grimes, Jackson Grimes, and great grandson August Marcus.

He leaves behind many friends, colleagues, and loved ones. We will forever remember his humor and unmistakable spirit. His presence will be deeply missed, and his memory will be cherished by all who knew him. Memorial services for Reb will be on Friday 11/21 10am @ Carney First Assembly of God Church.

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Celebration of Life

10:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

Carney First Assembly of God

206 E. Maple Ave, Carney, OK 74832

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Inurnment

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Carney Cemetery

South Highway 177, Carney, OK

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