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1955

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2025

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Jim Passadori Obituary

Jim Passadori

September 30, 1955 - June 17, 2025

Atwater, California - Jim Passadori, born to Jerry and Camilla Passadori on September 30, 1955, passed away peacefully at home on June 17, 2025 at the age of 69 leaving behind a legacy of love and cherished memories.

Jim was a true light in our lives and the lives of others. He had a huge circle of friends and was loved by many. He brought so much love, joy, and laughter into our world. We will love and miss him the rest of our lives.

Growing up in a vibrant Atwater neighborhood filled with the warmth and friendship of families like the Wack's, Steele's, Myer's, Westerdoll's, Bautista's and Pryor's, Jim spent his childhood playing outside with those neighborhood friends, often returning home just in time for dinner.

Many of those same friends were also Jim's schoolmates at St. Anthony's School in Atwater where he attended first through eighth grades. He also spent his childhood days with his brothers, Steve and Richard, rough housing and playing outside, swimming in their parents' pool, spending time at their grandparents' home for authentic Italian dinners, and vacationing in Santa Cruz every summer.

An enthusiastic athlete, Jim played baseball in his youth with the Atwater City League and enjoyed his four years playing on the Atwater High School baseball team. After graduating from Atwater High School in 1973, he pursued a degree in finance at Santa Clara University, where he not only received an excellent Jesuit education but also where he embraced his passion for music as a campus late-night DJ, rocking the airwaves until the wee hours.

It was during this time at Santa Clara that Jim met the love of his life, Debi. Their romance blossomed while he was home between his junior and senior years, leading to a beautiful partnership of 47 years. After graduating from Santa Clara University in 1977, Jim returned to Atwater to join his father and grandmother in the family business where he dedicated over 40 years of his life to hard work and a commitment to continue his family's legacy until he retired alongside his brother, Steve, in 2018.

On June 24, 1978, Jim and Debi celebrated their love with a joyous wedding. Together, they welcomed their son Ryan along with their daughter Diana into their family. Jim took great pride in being a loving husband and father, nurturing a family filled with laughter, love, and unending support.

Jim learned his love of growing a vegetable garden from his father and grandfather. He found joy in sharing his bountiful harvest with neighbors, friends, and family. His favorite pastime was playing golf, and every Wednesday and Friday, he enjoyed rounds with his "gaggle" at Rancho Del Rey Golf Course. He also played many days at Merced Golf and Country Club, where he once held membership.

As a longtime member of the Merced Elks, Jim enjoyed attending Friday night dinners there for over 20 years often joined by some of his dearest friends. His deep connection to his community was evident not only with the family business in Atwater but through his lifetime membership at St. Anthony's Church in Atwater, where he served as a lector for 15 years. He also served on the St. Anthony's School Board when his children attended the school. Additionally, he proudly represented the City of Atwater on the Castle Air Force Base Community Council.

Jim is predeceased by his grandparents Louis and Rose Passadori, grandmother Beryl Ward, and his parents Jerry and Camilla Passadori.

He is survived by his loving wife Debi; son Ryan; daughter Diana; brother and sister-in-law Steve and Lilly; brother Richard and dear friend Debbie Sellers, and many dear cousins.

Jim will be remembered for his kind and gregarious spirit, his laughter, and the joy he brought to all who knew him. His legacy lives on in the hearts of his family and friends, who will cherish the many memories and laughter shared throughout his life. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to the Glioblastoma Research Foundation.

With Jim's blessing, a private service will be held for the family.

Dear love, "May flights of angels sing thee to thy rest."

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Merced Sun Star from Jun. 21 to Jun. 25, 2025.

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Joy Zywicki "McCutchen "

July 23, 2025

Dear Debi and Family,

I have just heard about the passing of Jim and I am so sorry to have heard of your loss . Please know I will send prayers for our Lord to hold you in his loving arms as you heal .. hugs dear !

Joy McCutchen Zywicki

Gene and Patty Beach

July 19, 2025

Patty and I are so sorry for your loss. I had the pleasure of playing golf with Jimmy, and he always kept us on our toes with his great sense of humor. He´ll be missed on the course and off. Thinking of you during this difficult time

Kurt & Diane Knapp

July 18, 2025

Our deepest condolences... a real gentleman. Our best to the family.

Dauna Goza

July 6, 2025

We were sorry to hear of Jim's passing. Our deepest sympathies, he will be missed.
Dave & Dauna Goza

JACK MOREHOUSE

June 29, 2025

WILL MISS HIM EVERY DAY

Mike and Julie Willson

June 28, 2025

We will miss you Jimmy, your bright smile and wonderful laugh. We will cherish the memories. Love to Debi and family.

Gregg & Sharon

June 28, 2025

We are heart broken at the passing of Jim. Sending our Love & condolences to your family. RIP dear friend.

George & Tamara Bertaina

June 27, 2025

Tamara and I offer our deepest condolences and pray for comfort to the entire Passadori family. May Jimmy Forever Rest In Eternal Peace ...

Dennis and Debbie McGarry

June 26, 2025

We are so saddened by Jim´s passing and our hearts are so broken. We will always cherish our friendship of many, many years. His smile...always made you feel the genuine love he shared with you. Jim was always so supporting to our Jill. He loved and always treated her as if she were his own. Thank you Jim. Our love, thoughts and prayers to Debi, Ryan and Diana. You are such a beautiful family and we love you so much.

Tawny Suffecool

June 26, 2025

So sorry for loss Jim was such a great man God Bless you all

Claudia Guest

June 25, 2025

Sending prayers to the family.

Kent Pritchard

June 25, 2025

So sorry for your family's loss. Jim was truly a good person and will be missed. I have fond memories of him at high school and talking with him throughout the years at his family store.

Mike Stephenson

June 25, 2025

Wow Jimmie, it´s been some time since we saw you. Many years my wife cut your hair! And your dad´s! Remember the sales in the back lot dickering over furniture and appliances, you will be missed
With love and prayers for your family
Mike and Cherie Stephenson

Mike and Becky Akers

June 24, 2025

Such a warm and gregarious guy. Always a smile on his face. A good friend to all that knew him. Our deepest condolences. He will be missed.

Carden Kalcevich

June 24, 2025

We have very fond memories of Jim! Carden and Dee Kalcevich

Jane Vann-Bryan

June 24, 2025

Sending condolences to Debi and family. Jim was one of the good ones. I will miss his smile.

Stephen & Leslie Hamilton

June 24, 2025

Our sincerest condolences to Debi, Diana and Ryan. We will miss Jim´s warmth, humor and laughter at Elk´s Friday night dinners.

Judi Gray Zack

June 24, 2025

I sure miss seeing Jim on the canal bank, we were going to save the world!
Much love to Debi, Ryan, and Diana, thanks for sharing Jim with us :) Judi

Jguwon Hogges and the Hogges family

June 24, 2025

I had the pleasure of getting to know Jim through golf. His joyous spirit, and friendship will be missed! My condolences and prayers go out to the Passadori family during this time.

Ken Thompson

June 23, 2025

What a sad loss losing Jim this soon. Whenever I saw Jim, he would have me laughing the whole time. He always brightened my day. He was a true gentleman, I was honored to know him. My condolences to the Passadori family!

Brett Weaver

June 22, 2025

He was a very kind and wonderful person I always enjoyed going to the store and talking to jimmy

Anita Pryor

June 22, 2025

Jim and I go way back, we started our education together as kindergartners at Elmer Wood school. Then on to St. Anthony´s and Atwater High School. As we started our adult life we only saw each other occasionally but the friendship remained. He was such a passionate and involved member of our community; his smile, friendly nature and generous soul will be missed by so many people. My sincere condolences to his entire family.

Robert Olzack

June 22, 2025

Dear Debi, please accept our sincere condolences. The Olzack Families and the Passadori´s go back a long way in Atwater. Jim was truly a wonderful son, brother and friend. Sincerely, Robert & Linda Olzack

Joanie Valkos Schwartz

June 22, 2025

I am so sorry to learn of Jimmy's passing. I remember him as always smiling & being funny, making others laugh. Sending my sympathy to Debi & all of their family. May your happy memories give you all comfort.

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

Jack & Brenda Borba

Planted Trees

Ben Sanchez

June 22, 2025

Jim : sure going to miss ya , known you since I was 15 years old when I started working at your families business. You always had a smile for everyone. A truly wonderful friend. Love and prayers to the entire family.

Manuel Caton

June 22, 2025

Jim was a great friend of mine and many others. He will be missed by many

Billy Pimentel Jr

June 22, 2025

Prayers to the whole family Jim will be missed

ERIC W LEE

June 21, 2025

To write down all of things we did, the golf, the lessons I learned from you in the business world, and above all else, the friendship, would take me well into the night. I will miss your smile, your happiness, and above all else your unwavering friendship. To the family, I am so sorry for your loss, your father, your brother, meant so much to Judy and I. And to Debi, words written or spoken cannot convey just how bad we feel for your loss. We love all of you. Eric and Judy Lee

Paul pietrzyk

June 21, 2025

We will miss our friend. Paul and Laurie.

James Murphy III

June 21, 2025

I counted Jim as a friend for many years. He was instrumental in getting my business off the ground with his generosity. He had a very giving spirit and loved his community. My prayers go out to Debi, Steve and all those who will miss him dearly. Jim (The Plumber) Murphy.

Karen Gant Stephens

June 21, 2025

My condolences to the family

Rich and Deb Hawthorne

June 21, 2025

Sending your family love and sincere condolences at this very difficult time. May all your cherished memories help give you comfort. Richard and Debbie Hawthorne

The Staff of Wilson Family Chapel

June 21, 2025

The Staff and Wilson Family Chapel wishes to extend their sympathy and their assistance for this time of need.

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