John Joseph Fahey

John Joseph Fahey obituary, Neptune, NJ

John Joseph Fahey

John Fahey Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Ely Funeral Home - Neptune on Oct. 10, 2024.

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John Joseph Fahey of Neptune died peacefully at home surrounded by his devoted family on October 8, 2024. He is survived by his beloved wife Patsy of sixty-two years, son John Joseph Fahey III, daughter Sharon (nee Fahey) Butterfield, sons-in-law Robert Jenkens and David Butterfield, grandchildren Jack and Whitney Butterfield, and many other dear family and friends. He is predeceased by his parents, John & Margaret Fahey, his two sisters, Margaret (nee Fahey) Costello and Katherine (nee Fahey) Gallagher. He was the ultimate family man, who loved being a husband, father and "Poppy" to his wife, children and grandchildren. He loved nothing more than spending time with family. His children and grandchildren were his greatest joy and inherited his commitment to family, sense of humor, and love of reading.
John was born in Carteret, NJ. Upon completion of high school, he enlisted in the US Navy. He was proud of his service on board the USS Missouri. After his service in the Korean war, he graduated from St. Peter's College. He worked as an accountant and spent much of his career with the Internal Revenue Service. He lived the last twenty-three years of his life happily in the Villas at Jumping Brook enjoying the company of many wonderful friends and neighbors.
Visitation will be Sunday, October 13, from 4 p.m. until 7 p.m. at Ely Funeral Home, Neptune, NJ, and a funeral mass will be held Monday, October 14, at 11 a.m. at the Church of Saint Anselm, Tinton Falls, NJ. Interment is private.
To honor John's love of reading, the family has requested donations be made to Dolly Parton's Imagination Library in lieu of flowers https://donate.imaginationlibrary.com/
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My prayers and deepest sympathy to John's family as he we was one of the best guys I ever met and worked with at the IRS who also was a U.S. Navy brother veteran. John and I had many years working together and some great laughs and discussion s over vists to Ollie Kliens on our lunch breaks. God bless you Jack and I will always remember you my dear friend.

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