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John Helke Obituary
He was preceded in death by his beloved wife, Carolyn of 58 years.
John was a loving father of Dawn Sukowski and David Helke; dear grandfather of Brianne (Dean) Hebbe; and great-grandfather of Noah. Also survived by his sister, Joanne Helke.
John loved his family activities. Music was also an important part of his life. He was a music educator and taught instrumental music in both public and private school sectors. He retired from Wisconsin Lutheran High School in 2004. In his free time, he enjoyed cooking and working in his garden and yard.
A visitation will be held at Pagenkopf Funeral Home (New Location: 2228 N. Silver Maple Lane, Oconomowoc, WI 53066) on Monday, December 12, 2022 at 12:00pm, with a service to follow.
In lieu of flowers, memorials to Wisconsin Lutheran High School or St. Mark's Lutheran Church in Watertown are appreciated.
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Rachelle Noon
January 24, 2023
I knew Mr. Helke and his son, David, from working at Pick n' Save and seeing David working at Piggly Wiggly. I enjoyed chatting with them about sports, the weather, grocery stores! I am so thankful I got to know him and David. My condolences and heartfelt sympathies go to David and his family.
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