John James McGrath

John James McGrath, 55, passed away on February 5, 2026, in Albuquerque, New Mexico. Born on February 18, 1970, in Madison, Wisconsin, John lived a life defined by quiet strength, deep curiosity, and a wonderfully sharp sense of humor.

John's journey through life was one of resilience, reinvention, and - as he often said - "you are either going with the flow, or you are not." He pursued higher education and spent many years working in the recovery field, dedicating himself to helping others find solutions and healing from alcoholism and addiction. His career later led him into surveillance for the Gaming Commission, a role perfectly suited to his keen observational skills and analytical mind. In recent years, John found genuine happiness in his work at a natural grocery store - a position he truly cherished for its simplicity, steady rhythm, and kind environment.

John was exceptionally well-read and proudly ranked among the top listeners on Audible, a distinction he carried quietly but with undeniable pride. His love of learning was matched by a lifelong fascination with science, space, and technology. A true Gen X latchkey kid who had "tried all the fun stuff," John embraced computers early and remained an avid gamer throughout his life. From 80s arcades and Atari to Ultima Online and Skyrim, a long time lover of Dungeons & Dragons and Magic: The Gathering, he found joy in storytelling, strategy, and worlds limited only by imagination.

Music was another enduring passion. John loves all music, but Metallica holds a permanent place at the top of his playlist. He happily experimented with guitar, bass, and drums, exploring sound with curiosity and creativity. His artistic spirit also found expression through beading projects and, more recently, woodworking - an interest he had only just begun to explore.

John loved hiking and exploring remote places. He traveled across the pond several times and treasured being in the mountains, camping beneath the stars in the deep black of night. He found meaning in simple moments of awe, particularly sunrises and sunsets, which he appreciated with quiet reverence.

John moved through life with calmness, humility, and quiet wisdom. Spiritual rather than religious, he was guided by a deeply rooted moral compass grounded in honesty, fairness, and compassion - especially for those he felt were being treated unjustly. Modest by nature, John rarely spoke of his accomplishments or efforts. He preferred to keep such things to himself, though those closest to him knew he quietly dedicated countless hours to the people and pursuits he cared about.

He is survived by his beloved wife, Michelle, of nearly 27 years, as well as his loving in-laws. He leaves behind an enormous loss for his family, including Nathan and his children Lucian, Cyrus, and Lorelei; Jared and his son Chandler; Charlie and his significant other Jacqui; and Charity and Javier and their daughter Scarlett. Each of them brought immense pride and joy to his life. He deeply cherished time spent with his family - going places together and working side by side on projects in the shop.

He is also survived by his cherished mother, Delora Saviteer and recently deceased Robert Saviteer; his respected veteran father, Patrick "Tim" McGrath; and his much-loved sister, Teri McGrath and her spouse Terry. Teri's Barbies he mischievously "put in the meat grinder" as a kid. He grew up in Simi Valley on Ona Circle, California, a place forever loved, woven into his memories and stories. John also leaves behind many beloved nieces and nephews, as well as dear friends.

John's gentle spirit extended not only to people but also to the animals fortunate enough to be loved by him. He deeply mourned the loss of his dog, "The Dread Lord Balaburshagnasty" - a name that perfectly reflected his humor - as well as his beloved reptilian companions, Vorax and Parthonax. He leaves behind his Christmas cat, Kitt Tay, a cherished companion.

John James McGrath left us far too soon. His quiet wisdom, steady presence, sharp humor, and boundless curiosity will be deeply missed. Those who knew him will remember a man who spoke softly, loved deeply, and quietly gave more of himself than he ever let on.

A Celebration of Life will be held on May 23, 2026, at Vallecito Lake Pavilion.