John O'Shaughnessy

John O'Shaughnessy obituary, Neptune, NJ

John O'Shaughnessy

John O'Shaughnessy Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Ely Funeral Home - Neptune on Oct. 28, 2025.

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John O'Shaughnessy
October 2, 1939 - October 25, 2025
John O'Shaughnessy, 86, of Columbus, NJ passed away on October 25, 2025 with his loving family by his side. He will be fondly remembered as a devoted husband, father, and grandfather.
Born on October 2, 1939 in New York City, New York to John and Gertrude O'Shaughnessy. During his childhood, John attended St. Elizabeth School in New York City and went on to graduate from Pearl River High School in Pearl River NY, where he was the senior class president. He furthered his education by attending Fairleigh Dickinson College. John worked as a computer analyst.
John spent his time enjoying his family and traveling. He liked to listen to Bob Seger and the Beach Boys. As a sports fan, he enjoyed watching the Yankees and the Giants.
John was predeceased by his parents, John J. O'Shaughnessy and Gertrude Braun O'Shaughnessy; and granddaughter, Cailiosa Cobb.
He is survived by his loving wife, Carol M. O'Shaughnessy; daughter Kathleen Cobb and husband John Cobb; son, John J. O'Shaughnessy and wife Patricia O'Shaughnessy; grandchildren, Meghan Cobb and John G. O'Shaughnessy.
A visitation for family and friends will take place on Saturday, November 1, 2025 at Ely Funeral Home from 9:00 AM to 10:30 AM.
A Mass of Christian Burial will begin at 11:00 AM at Holy Innocents Roman Catholic Church located at 3455 West Bangs Ave Neptune, NJ 07753.
Burial will take place immediately after at St. Anne's Cemetery, 1610 Allenwood Road Wall, NJ 07719.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be in John's name to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital.
"At the rising sun and at its going down; We remember them.
At the blowing of the wind and in the chill of winter; We remember them.
At the opening of the buds and in the rebirth of spring; We remember them.
At the blueness of the skies and in the warmth of summer; We remember them.
At the rustling of the leaves and in the beauty of the autumn; We remember them.
At the beginning of the year and when it ends; We remember them.
As long as we live, they too will live, for they are now a part of us as We remember them.
When we are weary and in need of strength; We remember them.
When we are lost and sick at heart; We remember them.
When we have decisions that are difficult to make; We remember them.
When we have joy we crave to share; We remember them.
When we have achievements that are based on theirs; We remember them.
For as long as we live, they too will live, for they are now a part of us as, We remember them."
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