John William Van Gelder

John William Van Gelder obituary, Windham, NH

John William Van Gelder

John Van Gelder Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Carrier Family Funeral Home & Crematory - Windham on Mar. 22, 2025.

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John William Van Gelder, 72, of Salem, NH, passed away unexpectedly on Thursday, March 20, 2025.
He was born on October 29, 1952, to Irene (Griffith) and John F. Van Gelder. John was raised in Lynnfield, Massachusetts and attended local schools. He began his career in the fire service with the Peabody Fire Department. John later joined the Salem Fire Department in Salem, NH, where he proudly worked until his retirement in 2004. He was an active member of the Local 2892, having held many executive board positions, and had also served as the District One Vice President of the Professional Fire Fighters of New Hampshire.
In addition to his work as a firefighter, John owned and operated his own pool maintenance company, John the Pool Guy.
In his spare time, John enjoyed going to Las Vegas, taking road trips, and spending time with his beloved grandchildren.
John is survived by his loving wife of almost 15 years, Rhonda (Brazil) Van Gelder; his children, Tara Parisi and her husband Scott, Tim Van Gelder, and Tom Van Gelder; his stepson, Chad Kurisko; his grandchildren, Timothy, Sam, Matthew, Riley, Vanessa, Jason, Michael, and Jaxon; his good friend, that was like another son, Jack Carroll; as well as several nieces and nephews.
In addition to his parents, John was predeceased by his sister, Jeanne Amero; and his brother, Jim Van Gelder.
Calling hours will be held on Thursday, March 27th, from 9am to 12pm, with a Funeral Service beginning at 12pm, at the Carrier Family Funeral Home, 38 Range Road, Windham, NH 03087. Interment will immediately follow at Pine Grove Cemetery in Salem, NH.
With John's love for animals in mind, memorial donations may be made to any animal rescue league of one's choice.
For directions or to leave a message of condolence, please visit www.carrierfuneralhome.com.

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Jim Davis

June 19, 2025

John and I were best of friends back in the seventies, he got me interested in the fire department and we served together on the Lynnfield fire department until he joined the Salem NH fire department. John was my best man in 1974. God Bless you John and to your entire family, you were a one of a kind, and will be missed by all who ever had the pleasure to know you. I will see you in the future
Love you buddy
Jim Davis

Jen DiLorenzo

May 28, 2025

I'm so sorry to hear of John's passing. I just found out because I was looking to reach him regarding my pool. He came several times to help with our pool - he was always so fair and kind. Once he came back out to fix something for no extra charge and told me to "get a happy meal" for my daughter with the money. I will never forget that or his kindness. I'm so sorry to his family for their loss.

Michael W Petrilli Sr.

March 22, 2025

I worked with John at NAMCO Pools...he really knew how to sell. A great friend to have and be around!

Rae Ferriero

March 22, 2025

I can´t remember when there was a time when John wasn´t part of my life. He was the epitome of "best friend ". He will be missed more than I can put into words. He will always reside in a special spot in my heart.

Lydia Fitzgerald Fortier

March 22, 2025

My prayers are with the entire family darling this difficult time. John will ne greatly missed by all.

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