Jose Daniel "Joel" Aguirre

With heavy hearts, we share the passing of our beloved Jose Daniel "Joel" Aguirre, who left us on February 15, 2025, at the age of 59. A devoted father, dedicated son, cherished brother, loving uncle, and loyal friend, Joel brought kindness, laughter, and a steady presence into the lives of everyone who knew him.
Joel was the kind of person who made life a little brighter just by being in the room. Always ready with a joke, a helping hand, or quiet support, he had a way of making people feel at ease. He loved his family deeply and found joy in the little things-swapping stories, reminiscing over good times, and simply being present for the people he cared about.
But if you knew Joel, you knew that his greatest joy, his proudest role, and the very center of his heart was his son, Douglas Antonio Aguirre. From the moment Douglas was born, Joel's world revolved around him. Every decision, every sacrifice, every bit of strength he carried-it was all for Douglas. When Douglas passed, a part of Joel went with him, but he continued forward with quiet resilience, carrying his son's memory with him in everything he did. Now, we find peace in knowing that father and son are together again, exactly where Joel always wanted to be.
Another deep and unwavering love in Joel's life was for his mother, Amelia. No matter how busy life became, Joel made time to see her often, ensuring she was cared for, supported, and never alone. He was her rock, always showing up with a warm smile, a thoughtful gesture, or just quiet companionship. His devotion to her was a reflection of his kind and selfless heart, and his presence in her life was a source of immeasurable comfort and love.
One of his other great sources of pride was his career as a sheriff's deputy, where he was affectionately known as "AG" or "Pocket Ninja." Admired for his quick thinking, agility, and unwavering dedication, Joel served his team and community with integrity and heart. Wearing the badge wasn't just a job-it was a reflection of his character: loyal, fearless, and always looking out for others. Joel served his team and community with integrity and heart until he retired in 2023.
Born on October 30, 1965, in Manila, Philippines, Joel lived life on his own terms-independent, strong-willed, and full of personality. He found happiness in fishing, football, and good company, and no matter where life took him, he never strayed far from the people he loved.
Joel is survived by his mother, Amelia E. Aguirre; his siblings, Jose Erwin Aguirre, Jose Neville "Jovy" Aguirre, Jose Dennis Aguirre, Carmel "Lani" Aguirre-Tompkins, and Maria "Nette" Aguirre-Overton; and his many beloved nieces and nephews.
He was preceded in death by his father, Jose T. Aguirre, and his beloved son, Douglas Antonio Aguirre.
Services to Honor Joel's Life
• Viewing: Hollomon-Brown Funeral Home, 1485 Kempsville Road, Virginia Beach, VA 23464 | February 27, 2025 | 5:00 PM – 8:00 PM
• Funeral Mass: Saint Gregory the Great Catholic Church | February 28, 2025 | 11:00 AM
Though he is no longer with us, Joel's warmth, humor, and unwavering spirit will live on in the hearts of those who loved him. And now, he is finally reunited with Douglas, exactly where his heart has always been.
Rest easy, Deputy Aguirre-our beloved Pocket Ninja. Your watch is over, but your legacy lives on.