Kathleen Ann "Kay" Swanquist

Kathleen Ann "Kay" Swanquist obituary, Natick, MA

Kathleen Ann "Kay" Swanquist

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Kathleen Swanquist Obituary

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Kathleen ("Kay") Ann Swanquist passed away on October 10, 2025. She was the devoted wife of her late husband, Gustav ("Gus") Adolph Swanquist for 58 years, and the loving mother of three daughters and three sons-in-law: Kristin and Anthony Polito of Boston, MA; Karine and Henry Nowick of Leicester, MA; and Linea and Wayne Aspesi of Concord, MA.
Kay was born in Albuquerque, NM, the daughter of a rancher, E. Lee Francis, and an intellectual mother, Ethel G. Francis. Kay attended the Cincinnati Conservatory, in which she earned a Bachelor of Arts degree in Voice and an Artist's Diploma in Piano, then later pursued her studies at The Julliard School, training with Maestro William Herman, the opera coach to the late Roberta Peters in New York City. Under Maestro Hermann's exacting teaching method, Kay was required to take acting lessons at The Actors Studio and to study the languages of French, German, and Italian with various tutors to master the operatic arias in those languages.
After returning to New Mexico, Kay married the love of her life, Gus Swanquist, a mining and metallurgical engineer, in 1959. A lifelong commitment to music education and the arts spurned Kay's interest in becoming a university professor, in which she held faculty positions with New Mexico State University (NMSU), the University of New Mexico (UNM), Boston University, and Endicott College. While at NMSU and UNM, Kay produced and directed various musicals, dramas, and comedies through a theater company she founded, The Village Players. Her repertoire included such plays as The King and I, The Sound of Music, The Miracle Worker, Barefoot in the Park, The Glass Menagerie, The Fantasticks, and Ayn Rand's The Night of January 16th. After moving to the Boston area, as a member of the Union Club, Kay also performed concerts comprised of various piano concertos of her favorite composers for members and their guests, including Bach, Mozart, Chopin, and Debussy. A special favorite which she always played from memory was The Warsaw Concerto, by Richard Addinsell.
Kay was a highly creative and gifted individual who strived for excellence in everything she did, whether it was mastering a gourmet recipe, designing and sewing her own elegant clothing, running her late father's political campaign for the U.S. Senate, or leading a college choral group called "The Collegians" in her spare time. Among her many gifts were her talents at seeing and promoting excellence in others. She strived to encourage her students' aptitude for music, art, drama, or politics, build their confidence, and create an environment where their talents could flourish. In addition to her immediate family, Kay is survived by her younger brother and sister-in-law, John C. Francis and Briget Francis, of Henderson, Nevada.
There will be a Memorial Service scheduled on Saturday, October 25, 2025, at 9:00 AM at St. Clement Eucharistic Shrine – Oblates of the Virgin Mary, located at 1105 Boylston Street, Boston, MA 02215. A reception will be held in Kay's honor at the St. Clement Eucharistic Shrine following the service.
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Vicky L Gottlieb

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Kathy was my piano teacher from age 6 until I went off to college. I always loved her and the music she developed in me. She was a wonderful teacher and person and quite a big part of my life growing up. My condolences to Kristy, Karin and Linea. -- Vicky (Gottlieb)

Dana Olson

October 19, 2025

I was lucky to be one of her piano students as well as an actor in the Village Players. As a kid I was in the Miracle Worker and the King and I.

I played Helen in the Miracle Worker. Kathy composed special music for this play. The only time I really heard it was when Kathy and I did the dining room scene for a women's luncheon. The music totally put me into my part. I think that was the best I ever performed that scene. Kathy played Annie that day and she had her hands full.

As a Director she brought the best out in every actor and their tole. She brought the Miracle Worker to life in the first scene. Most productions I have seen have never set the play like Kathy had Kate, Helen's mom, set our play. Most versions just have Kate weekly yelling for Captain Keller when she figured out the baby was not responding to her. Not Kathy's Kate. The scream and tone in her voice sent chills down your spine. When I see other versions I just want to yell scream, something is very wrong with your baby.

My mom and dad were involved in the Village Plyers too. My mom and I still talk about those days and how they influenced us.

Thank you Kathy for being a special caring, sharing and giving person.

Dana Olson

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