Kenneth A. Stalberg

Kenneth A. Stalberg obituary, Belmont, MA

Kenneth A. Stalberg

Kenneth Stalberg Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Brown & Hickey Funeral Home on Feb. 11, 2026.
Kenneth "Ken" Stalberg, 73, of Belmont, Massachusetts, violinist, violist, teacher, and colleague, passed away at Beth Israel Hospital on February 9, 2026 surrounded by family. For nearly five decades, he was a steady and respected presence in Boston's musical community, known for his dedication, musicianship, and sharp sense of humor.

Ken studied violin performance at the Oberlin College Conservatory and later continued his training at Boston University College of Fine Arts, where he studied with Joseph Silverstein, concertmaster of the Boston Symphony Orchestra. From 1976 until his death, Ken worked as an active freelance musician in the Boston area, performing with leading ensembles including the Boston Ballet Orchestra, Boston Pops Esplanade Orchestra, Boston Lyric Opera, Boston Landmarks Orchestra, and the Bach, Beethoven, and Brahms Society, among others. At the time of his death, he served as Principal Viola of the latter three orchestras. Over the course of his career, he estimated that he performed more than 1,200 performances of The Nutcracker on violin with Boston Ballet. Early in his professional life, Ken served as violist of the New College String Quartet from 1977 to 1982 before returning to Boston.

Colleagues describe him as a crucial member of every ensemble he joined, both as a performer and as a contributor on many levels. He consistently did more than was required because he cared that everything be done as well as possible. His musical leadership reflected that commitment. It was entirely in character that he insisted on serving on an audition committee three weeks ago, the day after a medical procedure- an act that surprised no one who knew him.

After moving to Belmont in 1991, Ken taught students ages four through adult in his home studio, guiding hundreds over the years. He took particular satisfaction in helping students develop both technical skill and appreciation for classical music on the violin and viola. His teaching combined high standards with steady encouragement. His family knew him as devoted, generous with his time, and quick with a well-timed dad joke.

Ken is survived by his wife, Catherine; his sons, Nathaniel and Gabriel; his daughter-in-law, Hannah; his grandson, Finley; his sister, Dorothy Stalberg; and his brother, Michael Stalberg.His influence endures in the orchestras he strengthened and in the many students and colleagues who carry his example forward.

Relatives and friends are kindly invited to gather for Ken's Funeral Service at The First Church in Belmont, Unitarian Universalist, 404 Concord Ave, Belmont, Monday, March 9th, 2026, at 11:00 AM.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Friends of Acadia, supporting a place Ken returned to year after year to hike and find renewal, or to the Boston Landmarks Orchestra, whose mission of providing free concerts for all reflects the spirit of access to music that he valued throughout his life.

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February 21, 2026

Bruce Creditor posted to the memorial.

February 18, 2026

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February 18, 2026

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Bruce Creditor

February 21, 2026

Please accept our sincere condolences on the passing of dear Ken. He was such a stalwart of the Boston music scene, and I appreciated his sincere, honest and fun way as a performing colleague and as management of the BSO/BPO/BPEO. Wishes of healing and comfort to you and your family.
--Bruce Creditor

Priscilla Hallberg (Bunny)

February 18, 2026

I am so sorry to hear of Ken´s death. He was someone I respected and enjoyed so much all the years I played in the Boston Pops Esplanade Orchestra with him. I was encouraged by him to become a vegan, and I knew it was for moral reasons, because he loved animals. I remember when Ken had cancer and was so brave and steady through it all. I went to several of the parties he and his family had on the Fourth of July. There was an aura of kindness and gentility about him as well as a sense of humor. And there was his playing, which was very special. He was always the principal violist in the orchestra at Pops and elsewhere. I hadn´t seen him in many years, but will always remember him as young at heart and fun to be around. Rest in Peace, Ken.

John McLaughlin Williams

February 18, 2026

Ken was one of those presences that made it seem as if he would always be there, such a mainstay was he in the Boston scene. I held him in great respect; he was always prepared and always musical. I remember his solo in Enescu´s first Romanian Rhapsody, which was a work the Boston Pops Esplanade played frequently, and sometimes without rehearsal. He was unfailingly accomplished. He was also a character and even a bit idiosyncratic. I haven´t forgotten that he was a vegetarian and it was also he who introduced me to the Moosewood Cookbook, which I have used many times. Thank you, Ken. Rest well.

Rebecca Anne Strauss

February 16, 2026

I was saddened to hear about Ken's passing. I haven't seen him in years, but used to sub in many of the orchestras in which he performed. I donated to Friends of Acadia in his memory.
I send my deepest condolences to his family.
-Rebecca Strauss, violist

Meg Connor

February 16, 2026

Ken was such a sweet and gentle soul. My deepest sympathy to Catherine, his sons, daughter-in-law, grandson and and all his family. Ken lived with much kindness and grace and his talent was a gift to so many. He will certainly be missed. May his soul rest in peace.

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Wendy Rolfe

February 16, 2026

Catherine: I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Ken. (You may remember me as a fellow "Obie".) Ken was always a cheerful and smiling colleague, adding to the positive ambiance in an ensemble. He will be missed. With sympathies, Wendy Rolfe

Carol Lieberman

February 16, 2026

I remember Ken from many years performing together in various orchestras. He was a fine player and a sweet person. He will be missed by all who knew him.

Anne Hooper Webb

February 16, 2026

My heartfelt condolences to Catherine and to all his family for Ken's untimely death. I am sorry for any suffering he endured in the past year, and I am proud of him for pushing past it to keep contributing in music as he had always done. I last saw Ken at a Pro Arte concert, last autumn. As with all the times he played with Pro Arte, I strongly felt the integrity in both his playing and in his invaluable verbal ideas. May he rest in peace but always with a violin or viola in his hand!

In sorrow for musical Boston's great loss,
Anne Hooper Webb

Leo Mayer

February 16, 2026

It makes me very sad to hear that Ken has died. His influence on me as a musician and a human being was profound. Lessons with him were fantastic: his insight into technique ("this fingering might be better") and music in general were pearls of wisdom. Being of similar age, we spent a great deal of time talking about musicians we were both familiar with, and I cherished the stories he would tell at each lesson. Never a lesson did pass without a mention of how Fin was doing - Ken's entire family gave him so much pleasure. Ken will be missed, but certainly not forgotten, such was his influence on generations of musicians in his care.

Sue-Ellen Hershman-Tcherepnin

February 16, 2026

Catherine and family, Ken will truly be missed, but his spirit and love for all of us in the musical community over so many years will never be forgotten. His contributions are precious

Gerald Elias

February 16, 2026

Ken and I were fellow students at Oberlin and again as students of Joseph Silverstein. He was as fine a person as he was a musician.

Judith Glixon, cellist

February 16, 2026

I was shocked to hear about Ken's passing. I haven't seen him in years, but enjoyed carpooling with him to Ballet occasionally, probably over 20 years ago. I have planted a tree in his memory and send my deepest sympathies to your family.
-Judith Glixon, cellist

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Catherine Stalberg

February 16, 2026

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Danila Szekely

February 13, 2026

Dear Catherine ~ My deep heart condolences to you and your entire family. May Ken's memory be a Blessing and may he be at Peace. I am keeping you in my prayers at this difficult time. And, I cherish my memories of Ken and the two of you together over the many decades since we met at Oberlin! xoxo

Donna Cobert

February 12, 2026

Catherine, I'm so very sorry to learn today of your tremendous loss. It was such a pleasure for me to get to know you and Ken. I will keep you in my prayers during this difficult time.

Sue Bass

February 12, 2026

Catherine and Nathaniel and Gabriel, I am so sorry to learn this. Ken was such a wonderful, thoughtful person and also fun to be around. I'm grateful to have known him but shocked at his death at such a young age, even though I knew he was ill.

Jeanne Johnson

February 11, 2026

Dear Catherine:

I am so saddened to read of Ken's death and hold you within my heart with love.

Jeanne Johnson

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