Kevin Lee Howze

Kevin Lee Howze

Kevin Howze Obituary

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Kevin Lee Howze passed away on Thursday, May 22, 2025, in Bakersfield, California. Born on December 31, 1969, in Los Banos, California, Kevin spent his childhood on a small family farm off Highway 43. He attended Rio Bravo Greeley Elementary and graduated from Shafter High.

Kevin married the love of his life, Shannan, in 1989, and together they built a close-knit family over 35 beautiful years. They raised four children-Tyler, Hayden, Sarah, and Allie-and welcomed their son-in-law, Josh, into the family with open arms. Kevin loved Josh like his own, and when Miette and Hayden married, she quickly became part of the tribe. Kevin and Shannan were blessed with eight grandchildren: Kynlee, Mari, Nash, Walker, Lennix, Charlie, Cora, and Ada-each one deeply loved and cherished.

Kevin is survived by his mother, Linda Howze; his brother Landon, and sisters Arlana and Carrie, along with their spouses; numerous nieces and nephews, mother and father-in-law, Carol and Jim Holloway, as well as extended members of Shannan's family. He was preceded in death by his father, Burl Howze.

Kevin's life was grounded in faith, family, and football-he was a devoted Dallas Cowboys fan. But above all, he was driven by a deep desire to give his children opportunities he never had. He stood firmly in their corner-cheering them on, offering guidance, and providing help in any form: advice, resources, time, or just a steady presence. Sarah says that she believes being there for his children gave him a reason to live.

A true helper at heart, Kevin was a source of wisdom, a go-to for anyone who needed help moving (which happened often!), and a weekly visitor to his mom Linda's home, where he managed her finances and kept a loving eye on her well-being.

Kevin had a quick wit and a gift for humor, often delighting friends and family with his "Kevin-isms." One of many memorable lines: after Allie dissected a brain at school, he proudly shared she got two A's-and then joked about the dissection adding, "Someone there lost their mind."

In his early career, Kevin worked in the roofing trade alongside his brother Landon, with whom he shared countless laughs and rounds of golf and pool. Later, he earned his degree, and with his family's support, began a new chapter in IT. The Howze family spent seven years in Colorado, followed by a move to Turlock, where Kevin worked with his cousin Ted, forging a deep friendship. He ultimately joined Chevron's IT department, where he spent 16 successful years and built lasting relationships-and it was there he worked with Arlana and his niece, Caitlin.

Kevin was intentional about showing up-for Friday family nights, poolside BBQs, and beach or Grand Canyon getaways. He was a loving husband, father, papa, son, brother, and friend. His sisters often reminded him that he was an amazing brother and friend in life.

A faithful man, Kevin's love for God and His promises was central to his life. He loved studying the Bible with his weekly Men's Bible Study group, discussing doctrine, and pursuing spiritual understanding. Living out his faith and seeking truth was a constant and meaningful journey and he was baptized as a Christian on April 7, 2024.

A viewing will be held on Thursday, June 5, 2025, from 6 PM to 7 PM at Kern River Mortuary, 1900 North Chester Avenue, Bakersfield, CA 93308. Graveside services will take place on Friday, June 6, 2025, at 10 AM at Shafter Cemetery, 18662 Santa Fe Way, Shafter, CA 93263.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Teen Challenge, www.teenchallenge.com

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June 12, 2025

Arlana Lynn Shaw posted to the memorial.

June 10, 2025

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June 7, 2025

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Arlana Lynn Shaw

June 12, 2025

It´s been impossible to quantify or think of an adequate message that fully captures the essence of Kevin and the love we have for him-he was an active participant in so many lives, from his immediate family to extended family and friends.

We had a special friendship as siblings and friends. I cherish the scores of deep conversations we shared over the years, the laughs, and an understanding that comes from a shared childhood. Kevin made a point of expressing his love and support even most recently in my own life. Kevin often joined me for lunch (over a sandwich at home or his favorite, Great Castle!) where we talked about life, family, and solved the world´s problems. During one of our last visits, he stopped me in the parking lot at Great Castle, with tears in his eyes, and told me he had something serious to talk to me about. He expressed sadness and regret over something he had advised me during my divorce-as he often reflected on his own responsibility as a Christian and family leader to be fair, and a good example to others. He lived his faith and it showed in all of his interactions-with family or friend. He was one of a kind and he will be missed every day for the rest of my life. May we each honor Kevin by living a Life that makes Him proud.

Abhi Bhandari

June 10, 2025

Kevin was the most amazing, every time I interacted with him. He and I have worked on and off but always has been kind, a pleasure to work with, considerate, patient. Lots of love and strength to the family and loved ones. Missing you, Kevin! My Bakersfield visits are going to be different, very different.

Shawn Larner

June 7, 2025

Kevin was the nicest guy I've ever known. I had the pleasure of seeing him start his career at Chevron and got to watch him grow and progress over the years. Him and I shared a love for humor and jokes. One of his favorite jokes was when he tricked me with a photocopy of his work badge, to make me think I had caught him breaking the rules. Kevin was hard working, honest to a fault, kind and full of joy. I am grateful to have known him and called him a friend. He will be missed.

Nathan Jones

June 6, 2025

Dear Shannan and the Howze Family,

As someone who knew Kevin as a coworker and friend most of his time here at Chevron, I offer my deepest condolences to his family and all who know and love him. I can only imagine how the loss of such a wonderful person is affecting his family and close friends.

Kevin has many coworkers at Chevron who became caring friends and some of us thought of him as family. Kevin managed our PCN server hosting environment. He was considered the resident subject matter expert in several areas of technology. The entire team looked to him for assistance and guidance. He was well respected for his positive attitude and contributions toward our goals. Kevin had a wonderful way of conducting himself with respect for others, always remaining humble, never putting anyone´s thoughts or opinions down. He always gave time for others to speak and would listen thoughtfully before giving his response.

I had many opportunities to admire Kevin on different levels, both professionally and personally. Most workdays a few of us would make time to catch up, either at lunchtime or at the end of the day. Frequently, he would genuinely ask if we had any plans for the evening or weekend, sharing his excitement for what was on the menu for dinner that night or what he was looking forward to that weekend. He spoke of family daily. It might have been what family outing or get together was coming up or what he ate at his mom´s house as he helped with her monthly bill paying activity. I remember how he always petitioned Chevron event coordinators for extra tickets for sponsored events so he could bring as many of his family members that were able to attend. He truly seemed to enjoy everything more when his family was around. I respect and appreciate Kevin´s love of family.

Kevin and I enjoyed sharing DIY projects and ideas and many of the same movies, TV shows, and music genres. We both love comedies and action films and quoted them to each other often. I will forever hear him singing bits of songs while working at his desk. I recall him singing, "It´s the final countdown..." then a few minutes later it might be, "Swing low, sweet chariot, coming for to carry me home..." And I´ll never forget the echo of his loud sneezes, then a shrill whistle and "Yowza, or WhooWee!" He often spoke of getting the guys at work together for a poker game. He had it all planned out with who and what game and snacks of course! I wish we would have done that. Kevin often complained that it was too cold in the office, and frequently it was, but he was the only one who would be wearing a jacket and possibly a beanie most of the year.

I will miss our deep philosophical conversations (solving the world´s problems of course) where we let our guard down and really got to the heart of matters, the ones where we came to agreement, as well as the ones where we agreed to not agree so much. That´s something I admired and enjoyed throughout my friendship with Kevin, he never let differences in opinion, experience, or style prevent him from enjoying, learning from, and respecting others.

Like everyone who got to know him, I am deeply saddened by his passing and will greatly miss my friend Kevin. I am thankful for the time and experiences I was able to share with him. In time, I hope the family can find peace in the memories you will always have of times spent with Kevin. May God bless you all in this time of grieving.

Sincerely,
Nathan Jones

Caren Eckburg

June 5, 2025

Growing up we shared so many memories together. I was always the Tomboy who could hold my own playing football out at Enos Lane. Your seriousness was just as much a part of you as your jokes. You loved and made family your priority. They will grieve your loss, but have your lasting memories forever. I will miss you, and sorry you´ll have to hear my Kevin´s awful corny jokes

Bill and Barbara Reifel

June 5, 2025

Words can´t express the sadness we feel for this sudden loss, so difficult to understand. Kevin will be deeply missed. May the family find some comfort in all your shared memories. Savor them with each other.

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Rajasegar Nadar

May 31, 2025

I'm so incredibly sorry and heartbroken to hear about Kevin's passing. Working alongside him for the past 9 years was a privilege. I'll always remember him for his willingness to help, his unfailing politeness, and just how technically brilliant he was. He could always figure things out and was so generous in sharing his knowledge.
He was a wonderful colleague, and it's hard to imagine the team without him. I feel very sad, when I look at his office desk next to my. I miss you Kevin and my thoughts are with his family and friends.

Joyce Vontz

May 31, 2025

My heart is saddened for the loss of Kevin. He was always such a sweet & polite young man as I remember. My condolences to all the Howze family, I know Kevin will be missed so much. With love,Joyce Wilson Vontz

Bryce Henry

May 29, 2025

Such brutal and devasting loss. My cousin and brother. Gonna miss our lively "discussions" and viewpoint sharing sessions. So many memories and good times. My deepest condolences to Shannan and my nieces and nephews, Tyler, Hayden, Sarah and Allie and all the grandkids.

My heart is broken for all of you. I pray that with time, your grief will be soften by the memories and knowledge that Kevin loved all of you. Time will not wither the love you shared, and it will not steal the memories you keep and will cherish of Kevin.

Bryce

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