Lee Hammer

Lee Hammer obituary, Ankeny, IA

Lee Hammer

Lee Hammer Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Memorial Services of Iowa at Ankeny Memorial (MSI) on May 2, 2025.

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Lee Hammer passed away peacefully on April 30, 2025, at Sunnyview Care Center in Ankeny, IA surrounded by his family.
Lee was born on February 27, 1952, in Fort Dodge to Darwin and Bonny Hammer, one of four children. He grew up in Fort Dodge, where he attended Corpus Christi Elementary School and St. Edmonds High School, graduating in 1970. After high school, he went to Iowa Central Community College for two years, then to Iowa State University, where he graduated in 1975 with a degree in Industrial Administration.
Prior to his senior year at Iowa State, he married Shari Myers on June 8, 1973. After he graduated from ISU, he was employed by the Iowa Department of Transportation as a Purchasing Agent. Throughout his 37 years at the DOT, he worked in various departments. In his later years, he served as Director of Facilities and Support Services, retiring in 2013. Although the job had challenges, Lee always said he enjoyed his job and the many friendships he made with fellow employees. Lee and Shari lived in Ames for 40 years before moving to Ankeny in 2014. They raised their two daughters in Ames, and all were avid Cyclone fans.
Lee was a Pisces and loved being around water and water sports. He was a licensed scuba diver and an accomplished slalom water skier. He loved teaching others how to water ski any chance he got. He loved boating and riding jet skis. He spent a week in Canada with his "Fifth Degree" fishing buddies nearly every summer for 25 years.
Very close to his heart was the lake property he and Shari purchased in 1976. They built a small cabin on it in 1981 and then built around that cabin in 2007, making a nice lake home to enjoy in their retirement years.
Lee was a natural leader, and he served his community well. He belonged to St. Cecilia Church in Ames, where he served as the president of the Parish Council and Grand Knight in the Knights of Columbus. He had been an Elk since he was a young man and served as the Grand Exalted Ruler. At Lake Belletaine, he served as president of the Belletaine Lake Association. Many treasured friendships were made from serving in these organizations throughout the years.
Lee was very proud of his family and loved spending time with them, especially at the lake. Lee's faith was a priority and he and Shari often attended daily mass together.
Lee was preceded in death by his parents, Darwin and Bonny Hammer; and his sister, Marcia Borer. He is survived by his loving wife of 51 years, Shari, of Ankeny; his daughters, Licia Pettit (Tom) of Ankeny, and Lori Philbrook (Jay) of Roland; sisters, Barb Brown of Fort Dodge, and Jan Green (Tom) of Indianola; grandsons, Nick Philbrook, Tyler Philbrook and TJ Pettit; step grandchildren, Kyleigh and Henry; and many nieces and nephews.
Services will be held at St. Luke the Evangelist Catholic Church (1102 NW Weigel Dr., Ankeny) on Friday, May 9, 2025. Visitation will be held from 9:30 to 11:00 a.m. with Mass of Christian Burial to follow at 11:00 a.m. A luncheon will be served following the Mass. A private interment for immediate family will be held at Ankeny Memorial Gardens.

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August 28, 2025

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May 9, 2025

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May 8, 2025

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Mike and Beth Stevens

August 28, 2025

We just learned about Lee´s passing and send our sincere condolences to you from Lake Belle Taine. We spoke to a grandson last summer so knew he´d had some health issues. It´s just not the same without seeing lots of activity at your place. We wish you peace and comfort in the months ahead, Shari and family.
Mike and Beth Stevens (down the bay)

Shirley Swank

May 9, 2025

I'm so sorry, I loved Lee.

Nancy Richardson

May 8, 2025

Lee & I worked together at DOT for many years. He was a special guy...smart & capable, a hard worker, always looking for ways to help & improve things, & fun to be around. We tackled many issues together over 25+ years and became friends along the way. What a great picture...it's just how I remember him. My sympathy to his family. Hope you find comfort in knowing Lee touched lots of lives in lots of ways and the world was a better place with him in it.

Jonathan Grove

May 8, 2025

Lee's smile could make any day better! Just wish that I had known him longer. Sharing & family, you are in our prayers. Jon & Janice

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Stephanie Elifritz

May 6, 2025

Dad, Mom and I really enjoyed getting to know Lee and the entire family while he resided at Sunnyview. We enjoyed Sherry´s help on the puzzle in the "puzzle room", eating lunch with them everyday, passing them in the hallways while we walked around and got our daily steps in, are some things we will miss. I didn´t know Lee before he was sick, but he sounded like an amazing man. He oftentimes laughed at our jokes or something Mom would do while having lunch. Thinking of all of you during this difficult time.

Stephanie Elifritz.

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Kay Anderson

May 4, 2025

My sympathies to you, Shari, I worked at the DOT when Lee was there. He was always pleasant to talk to in the hallways or someone's office. He so friendly to all and had the same beautiful smile as shown in his photo.

Ray Micheel

May 3, 2025

Condolences to Lee´s family. We miss you both in the NW Abilene neighborhood!
Ray Micheel

Janet Tuttle

May 3, 2025

Lee had the most wonderful smile and laugh. Loved the time I was able to care for him.

Eileen T PRIMMER

May 2, 2025

My sympathies to you, Shari, I worked at the DOT when Lee was there. He was always pleasant to talk to in the hallways or someone's office. He was a friend to all.
Eileen Primmer

Gail Nordholm

May 2, 2025

So sorry for your loss, Shari and family. He shared great leadership skills in his positions at the Iowa DOT. Lee was a friend to all. He will be missed.

Betty Gordon

May 2, 2025

Shari, daughters, and extended family members,

My heartfelt sympathies too each, and every one of you on the loss of your husband, dad, grandpa, and brother.

I knew Lee for decades at the DOT.

One morning I was zipping around traffic on grand Avenue. Later, I saw Lee in the hallway and he was telling me how much I looked like the racer scooting around people.

The woman's bathroom was right next to his office area, so I saw him very often daily interacting with people.

What an enlightening obituary that was where I learnedso much more about Lee especially about him being a water skier and certified diver. That surprised me.

I know with his memory loss issues you've been dealing with the last few years have been very trying/crying for each of you.

Lee is now finally healthy again and he'll find water up again to be doing his favorite things; don't you think, I do. Lol.

May God comfort each of you now and in the days, months, and years ahead.

If you have videos or cassettes with Lee on, make copies and put the original away or it will go bad with you playing it during the times when you need it most.

It's great hearing their voices, laughter, and watching their mannerisms with them being in the same room you are listening at.

SHARI, so glad you've joined our DOT women´s coordinator Got to talk to you when you gave us updates on Lee's health.

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