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Retired Lt. Col. Thomas J. Hunsader, a decorated U.S. Air Force veteran, Vietnam War pilot, and proud Wisconsin farm boy, passed away at his home in Amherst, NH, on October 13, 2025, at the age of 85, following a period of declining health.
He was born on March 5, 1940, in Kewaunee, WS, a son of the late Leon and Bernetta (Jerabek) Hunsader.
Survivors include his loving wife, Jacqueline Hunsader of Amherst, NH, three daughters and sons-in-law, Monica and Rocky Contreras of Lutz, FL, Kara and Brad Balkus of Newbury, MA, Natascha and Robert Rovinski of Palm City, FL, six grandchildren, his brother, Steve Hunsader of FL, many nieces and nephews and many friends.
Born and raised in Kewanee, Wisconsin, Thomas grew up working on his family’s farm, where he developed a strong work ethic, a love for the land, and a deep sense of responsibility. Those early values never left him. He earned a Bachelor of Science degree in Agricultural Engineering at the University of Wisconsin in 1965 and was commissioned as an Air Force Pilot, Second Lieutenant. In 1979, he completed a Masters of Arts degree in Psychology from Louisiana Tech University.
After commissioning, Hunsader became a KC-135 Stratotanker pilot and served with distinction during the Vietnam War, flying numerous combat aerial refueling missions out of Okinawa. His efforts played a critical role in sustaining U.S. air power in Southeast Asia during the height of the conflict.
In 1974, he was part of the elite support team that enabled the SR-71 Blackbird reconnaissance aircraft to break the transatlantic speed record, flying from New York to London in just under two hours. His role in refueling operations was vital to this historic achievement, showcasing the precision, coordination, and excellence that defined his career.
Following his time in the cockpit, he served in a leadership role as Director of Operations for the Airborne Warning and Control System (AWACS), helping guide the strategic use of this critical surveillance and command platform during a pivotal era of global military readiness.
Known for his humility, sharp intellect, and quiet patriotism, Tom was admired by his peers and respected by those he mentored. Despite his high-flying accomplishments, he remained grounded in the values of his rural upbringing and maintained a lifelong appreciation for agriculture, aviation, and service.
Thomas had a decorated career, but the most meaningful part of his life was his family and his faith. Known as a generous and loving PopPop and father, he cherished summer and winter gatherings with his family at his home.
SERVICES: Calling hours will be held on Sunday, October 19, 2025, from 3:00 PM to 5:00 PM in the Smith & Heald Funeral Home, 63 Elm Street, Milford, NH. A mass of Christian burial will be held on Monday, October 20, 2025, at 10:00 AM in the St. John Neumann Church, 708 Milford Road, Merrimack, NH. Burial with full military honors will conclude in the Meadowview Cemetery, Foundry Street, Amherst.
Arrangements are in the care of the Smith & Heald Funeral Home, 63 Elm Street, Milford, NH. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to St. John Neumann Catholic Church or Breakthrough Type 1 Diabetes. To share a memory or offer a condolence please visit www.smith-heald.com for more information.
63 Elm Street, Milford, NH 03055
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