Lynne Groton Weidner

On December 30, 2024, Lynne Groton Weidner of Snow Hill, MD passed away peacefully Monday morning after more than a decade battle with Alzheimers Disease. Lynne G Weidner was born August 15, 1944. She was 80 years old.
She is survived by her daughter Melisa Weidner, her stepsons Jack Weidner (Karina Ferrer) grandsons Jackie and Nicholas Weidner, Skip Weidner (Jen) granddaughters Jillian and Janna, and her brother Tom Groton (Althea Groton).
Lynne is preceded in death by her parents Clay and Marie Groton and nephew Tyler Groton.
Lynne was born in Baltimore City and spent her childhood living in Lutherville MD. When she was young, she was very involved with horse shows with her grandmother, Rebecca Tarbert Groton. She later moved to Sparks, MD with her parents and brother, Tom. In the summers, she and her family enjoyed tubing down the Glencoe River across from her grandparents farm. Family was always very important to Lynne and was celebrated annually with the familys Grotonanny Reunions. Springtime Lynne could be found at My Ladys Manor in Monkton for the Point to Point horse races, foremost being the Maryland Hunt Cup. She was an active member at Immanuel Episcopal Church in Glencoe MD, with her parents.
She graduated from Catonsville Community College. Upon graduation she entered University of MD College Park. After a semester, she decided to join the workforce at Western Electric in Hunt Valley MD.
Lynne began working at Western Electric in Hunt Valley, MD in the mid 1960s.
She met her husband Ed Weidner there, and they married a couple years later. They purchased a farmhouse in Parkton, MD where they spent their time renovating the home, creating beautiful gardens and entertaining. She helped raise Eds 2 sons from his 1st marriage, Skip & Jack. The boys were there every other weekend and she loved them as her own. Lynne was also very active at Melisas elementary school, Fifth District. She was an active PTA member as well as a school volunteer helping students with assignments, assisting in the lunch room and most notably pioneered an afterschool roller skating program where she was the DJ. Lynne took Melisa to the Eastern Shore each summer to spend time in Snow Hill and Ocean City.
Lynne packed up Melisa and their things and moved to Burlington, NC to follow her husbands career path with the phone company. Upon she and Ed building their dream home, it quickly became a show piece. Lynne was known for her exceptional taste, attention to detail and it soon became the model for the new development. She became involved in the Soroptimist Club and also pursued a career in real estate. Life in NC was short-lived due to her divorce of Ed. Even after the divorce Lynne remained in contact with Eds nieces and nephews. In later years they would occasionally get together and they often visited her in Snow Hill. She always considered them family.
Lynne and Melisa decided to move to Snow Hill, MD where her brother Tom was raising his family and her parents had retired. Lynne quickly acclimated to life on the shore. She began working at her cousins law office Harry S Groton. She spent numerous days working in the yard, enjoying the sun at Public Landing, going to auctions to find just the right piece of silver, and enjoying time out with friends. She also adored her nephews Clay and Tyler Groton and Alex Dryden.
Lynne later worked for Betty Schillers Title Abstracting and eventually finished her career at the Worcester County Courthouse in Land Records. She became an All Hallows Church member when she moved to Snow Hill in 1986, although she had been attending services since the 70s when her brother Tom had moved to town. She loved assisting with the annual Pancake Supper at the church and was most often a greeter so she could socialize with everyone. Lynne also enjoyed playing intramural volleyball for a few years. Her favorite spot was the Nassawango Country Club or the Snow Hill Inn where everyone gathered to enjoy each others company. She adored her parents and loved taking turns hosting holidays with her parents and brothers family.
Lynne and Melisa had an unbreakable bond and loved each other fiercely. From elementary school through college, she was always there cheering Melisa on making sure she knew she was loved. She would often visit Melisa up at Shepherd University, where everyone anxiously awaited her arrival and lovingly referred to her as Aunt Lynnie.
In later years, she loved being visited by her son Jack and his family. Especially her grandsons Jack and Nick that referred to her as Grams. She adored her Tyler Groton and was always excited for his grand entrance into her home. Lynne loved cards and anyone that played with her rarely won except her stepson Skip. It wasnt until she was diagnosed with AD that someone other than herself was the victor.
Melisa, moved back to the shore from Washington, D.C. in 2014 to care for her mother after noticing some cognitive decline. Lynne retired from the courthouse and was diagnosed with Alzheimers Disease soon after. She and her daughter spent the next 8 years enjoying each others company. They spent time enjoying the beach, boardwalk, church, road trips, shopping, dining out and wrapping up each day with some ice cream.
Lynne also had breast cancer in 2016 and a mild stroke in 2018 but successfully overcame both.
March 17, 2022 Lynne was placed in Harrison House due to her decline. Melisa visited frequently, making sure her mother was well taken care of and that she received her daily dose of ice cream. Lynne passed peacefully in her sleep early Monday morning Dec 30.
Lynne was known for her impeccable style, generous ways, incredible storytelling, devotion to family and friends, discerning taste, quick wit, love of jewelry, cocktails, cards and ice cream. Melisa chronicled their journey on social media when she returned home in 2014. There was quickly a large following from Melisas friends from elementary school through college, many neighbors, family and friends she hadnt met. She was infectious, and funny with a sharp tongue, but was always loved by many. She will be missed.
In lieu of flowers please honor Lynnes memory in purchasing something fabulous for yourself and think of her every time you wear it. We also ask that you consider volunteering some time at your favorite charity.
A visitation will be held on Friday, January 3, 2025, from 4:30 pm until 6:30 pm at The Burbage Funeral Home located at 208 West Federal St in Snow Hill, MD. An additional visitation will be held on Saturday, January 4, 2025, from 11 am until 12 pm at All Hallows Episcopal Church in Snow Hill, followed by the funeral service at 12 noon. Interment will be immediately after the service at the All Hallows Episcopal Churchyard.
Letters of condolence can be sent to the family via www.burbagefuneralhome.com. Arrangements are in care of The Burbage Funeral Home in Snow Hill, MD.
Memorial Donation
Visitation
Friday, January 3, 2025
4:30 PM - 6:30 PM
The Burbage Funeral Home
Snow Hill, MD
Visitation
Saturday, January 4, 2025
11:00 AM - 12:00 PM
All Hallows Episcopal Church
Snow Hill, MD
Funeral Service
Saturday, January 4, 2025
12:00 PM
All Hallows Episcopal Church
Snow Hill, MD