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Margery Near Obituary
April 17, 1932 - May 1, 2025
Margery A. Near, 93, of Elbridge passed away peacefully at home on May 1, 2025. Affectionately known as Aunt Mousie, she was born April 17, 1932 in Auburn, the daughter of late Harold and Gladys (Beck) Pinckney. Margery was a graduate of Central High and was employed 48 years at Auburn Correctional, retiring in 1987. She previously served on the board of directors at Auburn Federal Credit Union. Known for her "spicy" wit, generosity and knowledge of all things Auburn.
Margery and her husband, Wilson J. Near Jr., spent winters in Naples, Fla. until his passing in 1998. Summers were spent on Cape Cod with her daughter and children. You could find her everyday having lunch at Kostas.
Besides being predeceased by her husband and parents; she was predeceased by sisters, Shirley (Richard) Ganey and Jean Pinckney; brothers, Donald Pinckney and Robert Pinckney; special nephew, Terry Ganey; in-laws, Doris (John) Bierer and James B. (Susan) Near.
She is survived by daughter, Susan (Wesley) Bird of Elbridge and Naples Fla.; granddaughter, Elizabeth (Mathew) Santos of Andover, Mass. and York, Maine; great-grandchildren, Wilson James and Blake Elizabeth Santos. Also, survived by special nieces, Peggy Hicks and Suki Near; special nephew, David Ganey.
The family would like to thank special neighbors, the Benninks and McLaughlins for their love and friendship. Special thanks to Mary and Terry Clifford, Linda Lynch, Alice Hoatland, Marcia Mizro and her girls at Kostas for loving her.
In honor of Marge, have a Moscato, Nutty Irishman or a Parliament.
Private graveside service's will be held at the convenience of the family.
Donations in her memory may be made to JE Dollars for Scholars, 5721 Hamilton Road, P.O. Box 901, Jordan, NY 13080 or Francis House, 108 Michaels, Avenue, Syracuse, NY 13028.
Condolences may be made at www.brewfuneralhome.com.
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Doreen mahunik
May 9, 2025
Susan and Family sorry for the loss of Marge She was a beautiful person son person inside and outside may she rest in peace
Laurie (Walsh)Scriven
May 9, 2025
I would call your mother after mom died to check on her. Mom & her were good friends all throughout their lives. I meant to call her for months before I went on vacation & I'm very sorry I didn't and so sorry to hear about this sad news.
Kip Pinckney
May 9, 2025
Aunt Mousie, you were my favorite Aunt. You always had a smile and made me feel loved.
Kip
KellySue
May 8, 2025
So.sad romper of Marge's passing. She will be missed. I'll cherish the memories we have from the Sunset days.
Sue love you my friend.
Joe LoPiccolo
May 8, 2025
So sorry to hear about Marge. So many wonderful memories from the prison.Was always great to run into her at Kosta´s and so many other places. A very bright light has bern extinguished. Rest in Peace Marg.
sharon delaney
May 8, 2025
Sue, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I have so many good memories of your mom. She was one classy lady. She will be missed by all that knew her.
Rick Ganey
May 8, 2025
Aunt Mousie was one of a kind may you soon find peace knowing she led such a full life and was special to so many people
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