Marilyn Esther (Haymes) Mitchell

Marilyn Esther (Haymes) Mitchell obituary, Wilson, OK

Marilyn Esther (Haymes) Mitchell

Marilyn (Haymes) Mitchell Obituary

Visit the Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Wilson website to view the full obituary.

Services for Marilyn Esther (Haymes) Mitchell, are scheduled for 10:00 A.M., Saturday, at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Wilson with Rev. Mike Williams officiating. Interment will follow at Leon Cemetery.

Marilyn was born January 7, 1967, at Ardmore, to the late Mr. David Clarence “Sonny” Haymes, Jr. and Mrs. Mary Magdeline “Cisero” Haymes. She departed this life Monday, November 3, 2025, at Oklahoma City.

Marilyn's remarkable journey began in the small town of Leon, where she attended school, later attending Turner schools. Marilyn was a devoted mother to her three beloved sons. Her nurturing nature extended beyond her family; she embraced her role in the education system with passion and dedication at Plainview School. Over the years, she wore many hats within that community, including serving as a school bus driver, the superintendent's secretary, and as encumbrance clerk, leaving a valuable mark on the lives of those she served. After retiring from her esteemed career, Marilyn made the decision to move to Oklahoma City, where she continued to thrive until her passing. Marilyn had a zest for life that was evident in her many hobbies. She found joy and freedom riding her motorcycle, often embracing the open road with exhilaration. Additionally, her green thumb flourished in her garden, where she spent countless hours nurturing her plants and enjoying nature's beauty. Above all, she cherished her time with her grandchildren, creating lasting memories and sharing her love with them unconditionally.

Preceding her in death are her parents, Sonny and Cisero; brother, Charles Mark Haymes.

Survivors include her sons, Randy Mitchell and Danny Torruella of Chicago, Il, Justin Mitchell of Dallas, TX, Dylan Mitchell and wife Ali of Wilson; brothers, David Haymes and wife Pam, Matt Haymes and wife Nancy; significant other, Mike Allen; grandchildren, Dominic and Maverick; numerous other family and friends.

Pallbearers will be Randy Mitchell, Justin Mitchell, Dylan Mitchell, Randall Newell, Tyler Farve, Phillip Hatley, and Danny Torruella.

Visitation will be held from 5-7 P.M., Friday evening at the Alexander Gray Funeral Home Chapel in Wilson.

Condolences and memories may be shared online at www.alexandergrayfh.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Alexander Gray Funeral Home of Wilson

1302 Seventh St, Wilson, OK 73463

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