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Mark Fenske Obituary

Businessman, entrepreneur, beloved brother, uncle, great-uncle
Mark Andler Fenske, 66, of Brookline and Hopkinton, NH, died on November 3, 2023, at the VNA Hospice House at Concord Hospital.

Born and raised in Green Village, NJ, Mark was the son of Arthur G. Fenske and Helen Carner Fenske. He attended Chatham Twp. Schools, and Boston University before moving to NH. Self-taught businessman and entrepreneur, Mark focused on building a successful career in the restaurant and hospitality industry. In 1984, Mark became a founding partner of T-Bones Restaurant in Salem, NH. He was instrumental in growing partnerships and a single restaurant into a New Hampshire institution: Great New Hampshire Restaurants (GNHR). The company has expanded to include nine locations (T-Bones, Cactus Jack's, and Copper Door), a central commissary and catering arm, several real estate companies, a management company, and a charitable trust, FEEDNH.org, supporting families, elderly, education and disadvantaged throughout the state.

Mark's dedication, vision, ability to collaborate and support his businesses, partners and employees was the hallmark of GNHR's core values and its success. He considered GNHR his second family. As CFO, devoted leader and mentor with a passion for history, architecture, design and quality in all things, Mark most often remained behind the scenes. Nonetheless, he along with partner Tom Boucher (CEO) and the company were honored in 2009 by NH Business Review "Excellence in Hospitality" award. In 2013, Mark was honored again by NHBR as the "Financial Executive of the Year." Business NH Magazine honored the company in 2020, naming GNHR "Hospitality Business of the Decade."

A curious, industrious thinker and tinkerer, Mark renovated old houses, restored antique trucks, and was a student of local histories. He loved the outdoors, farming, gardening and was committed to protecting and conserving the state's natural environment, history and culture. Mark loved The Granite State.

In addition to his long-time business partners and devoted employees, Mark is survived by his brother, Karl A. Fenske of Bradley Beach, NJ, his sister Susan Fenske McDonough of Nashua, NH, his nieces and nephews; Rachel Fenske Davis (Yancy), Catherine McDonough, Martha Fenske, James McDonough (Danielle), Taylor Fenske (Megan), Grace McDonough, and several great-nieces.

A memorial gathering will be held on Friday, November 10, 2023, at 1:00 p.m. at St. Giles Chapel at Restland Memorial Park, 79 Deforest Ave., East Hanover, NJ.

A Celebration of Life will also be held in New Hampshire later this month.

In Mark's honor, donations can be directed to: FEEDNH.org, Bedford, NH or to Society for the Protection of New Hampshire Forests, Concord, NH.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Star-Ledger from Nov. 7 to Nov. 8, 2023.

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Dawna Bosquet

November 11, 2023

I am so very sorry on hearing the passing of Mark. Such a very kind man. My thoughts and prayers to the Fenske family and Copper Door, Cactus Jacks and T Bones families as well.

Lisa Witt

November 11, 2023

As a fellow CTHS graduate, I am so proud of all of Marc's passions and how he shared them in the world to help others...may you all share wonderful memories together for many years to come...

Russell Haight

November 10, 2023

We were so sad to hear of Mark's passing. We send our deepest condolences to the Fenske family.
The Haight Family of Brookline.

Anna

November 10, 2023

To Marks Family,

I am so sorry to hear the passing of such a kind, wonderful man. I had the pleasure of working with Mark in the banking world and looked forward to seeing him in the branch. Heaven gained a beautiful soul but he will be greatly missed.

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