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In Loving Memory
Martin W. Tokos
November 15, 1957 – February 7, 2025
LORRAINE, NY – Martin "Marty" W. Tokos, 67, of Lorraine, NY; passed away peacefully on Friday, February 7, 2025 at his home, surrounded by loving family. He was born in Gouverneur, NY, son of the late Joseph and Phyllis (Appleby) Tokos.
Marty was a graduate of Carthage High School (class of 1975), and of Auburn University with a Bachelor of Science in Engineering. He would go on to work for the U.S. Army Corps of Engineers for over 20 years. He served for many years on the Town Board of Lorraine and was a member of the Carthage Elks Lodge.
On October 5, 1991, he married the love of his life, Lynette Cook.
He was most happy when working around his property, continuously improving and beautifying the home which he built to share with his beloved wife for the past thirty years. He loved caring for his family and spending time with his grandchildren.
He was pre-deceased by his parents; father-in law, LeRoy Cook, and brother-in-law Kevin Cook.
Marty leaves behind a loving family to cherish his memory, including, his wife, Lynn Tokos; daughters: Chaya (Martin) Charles, Bianca (Artie) Phillips; grandchildren: Julian and Chloé Charles (Mike Mulligan), Mylee and Corlee Phillips; his mother-in-law: Dolores Cook; a brother: Joe (Kathy) Tokos and two nieces: Lorna Harp and Sarah Tokos.
A Celebration of Marty's life will be held at a time to be announced, late in the spring of 2025. Arrangements are in care of Harter Funeral Home, Inc. 9525 S. Main Street, Brewerton, NY.
Donations may be made in Marty's honor to: Hospice of Jefferson County or The Creutzfeldt-Jakob Disease (CJD) Foundation.
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Chuck Stafford
March 2, 2025
Rest in Peace Marty. Life is shorter than we realize. Memories of growing up together as friends always puts a smile on my face. Gone today, but never to be forgotten.
Kirk Ventiquattro
February 16, 2025
Our Dear Cousins, our hearts are broken for you all as we heard of Marty´s passing. He was such a nice person and the perfect man to lead your family. Though hard to imagine at this moment, soon we pray you will all take comfort knowing that he will live on in the hearts of all of you. Love, and prayers, Kirk, Carmelita, Tony and Mario
David LaClaire
February 16, 2025
I just got word about Marty's passing. This is shocking news to me. Marty and I grew up together, and I have a lot of memories involving him. When we were younger kids, we hung out in his pool quite a bit. I also remember playing ping pong in his basement and listening to records. We were close friends for years, but as we got older, our paths separated. I last saw Marty at my mother's memorial service in 2014. My thoughts go out to his brother Joe, my classmate Lynn and everyone else who knew Marty. I am very saddened to hear this news.
Nancy Cornell
February 15, 2025
We are very sorry to hear about Marty. We grew up in the same neighborhood and he was a good guy. Much love to his family at this difficult time. Nancy & Dale Cornell
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Thomas II & Patricia Ventiquattro
February 13, 2025
To Lynette, Chaya, Bianca and the entire family of Martin Tokos,
Patty and I send condolences with our hope that you are finding comfort in the company of family and friends at this time. Please know that we will keep you in our prayers as we remember Marty.
Love,
Tom II & Patty Ventiquattro
Ellisburg, NY
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