Mary Frances Kay

Mary Frances Kay obituary

Mary Frances Kay

Mary Kay Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Brumley-Mills Funeral Home - McAlester on Oct. 16, 2025.

Publish in a newspaper

Mary Frances Kay, 88, of Peaceable, passed away Tuesday, October 14, 2025 in McAlester. Funeral services will be Friday, October 17th, at 3:00 p.m. at Brumley-Mills Funeral Home in McAlester, with Mike Farris officiating. The family will welcome friends for visitation on Thursday from 6:00 to 8:00 p.m. at Brumley-Mills Funeral Home.

Mary Kay was born on April 18, 1937 in McAlester to Earl White Henry and Eula Christine (Williams) Henry. She grew up in the Peaceable area and attended school at Cooper School, then Peaceable school. She married Dale Kay on February 28, 1959 in McAlester, and they made their home in the Peaceable area all their lives. Mary worked at the local rubber plant for a few years, but her life's work has been devoted to the family business, Kay's Meat Processing. Mary was a strong supporter of the FFA kids in the area, always attending and taking part in their auctions and other fund-raising events. She also enjoyed going to garage sales, going from one garage sale to another. Mary was a life-long, active member of the Peaceable Valley Church.

Mary is survived by her children, Gale and Ed Wilson, and Chris and Dana Kay; 9 grandchildren and 22 great grandchildren; 2 brothers, James Henry and Earl Henry; and 3 sisters, Ann Beth Durbin, Dollie Barrier, and Lois Pool. She was preceded in death by her husband, Dale; her parents; a daughter, Jerrie Rowell; a grandson, Aaron Wilson; a sister, Tiny Cozad; and brothers, Keith Henry, Kimble Henry, and Bill Henry.

The family would like to respectfully suggest, in lieu of flowers, a donation to Mary's church, the Peaceable Valley Church, at 112 Apache Ave., Hartshorne, Ok. 74547.

To send a flower arrangement in memory of Mary Frances Kay, please click here to visit our sympathy store.

To plant Memorial Trees in memory of Mary Frances Kay, please click here to visit our sympathy store.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Brumley-Mills Funeral Home - McAlester

1410 E Carl Albert Pkwy P.O. Drawer 489, McAlester, OK 74501

Make a Donation
in Mary Kay's name

People and places connected with Mary
How to support Mary's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Mary Kay's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Sign Mary Kay's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?