Mary LaCour Obituary
Mary Clare Nesbit LaCour, affectionately known as “Tootie,” passed away peacefully on Thursday, October 23, 2025, at the age of 97. She was born on October 16, 1928, in Baton Rouge, Louisiana, the youngest daughter of the late Grover and Alice Louise Nesbit.
Tootie was a proud graduate of Louisiana State University, where she earned a degree in Home Economics. Throughout her life, she was a devoted member of Our Lady of Mercy Catholic Church and participated actively in the Harlequins social club. She found joy in music and dancing. Above all, Tootie cherished her family. A dedicated mother and wife, she filled her home with warmth and laughter.
She is preceded in death by her beloved husband of 45 years, F. Ashley LaCour; her parents, Grover and Alice Nesbit; sisters, Rose Nesbit Doiron, Alice Carmelitte Nesbit Daigle, and Betty Nesbit Boudreaux; brothers, Grover Eustis Nesbit Jr., John Philip “Jack” Nesbit, Wilbur D. “Boots” Nesbit, George “Buff” Nesbit, William David “Bill” Nesbit, and Richard Alvin “Dick” Nesbit.
She is survived by treasured children Jane LaCour, Suzanne Carter (James Carroll), and Jeffrey LaCour; and her granddaughter Clare Marie Carter.
The family would like to extend their sincerest gratitude to Chaplain Jay Busby and the compassionate staff of The Hospice of Baton Rouge for their utmost care, support and prayers for our mom and family.
A private service will be held in honor of Tootie at a later date. The family appreciates the outpouring of love and support and asks for continued prayers as they navigate through this time of loss. Your kind words and thoughts have meant the world to them.
Memorial donations may be made to The Hospice of Baton Rouge, 3600 Florida Blvd., Baton Rouge, LA 70806.
Family and friends may sign the online guestbook or leave a personal note to the family at www.resthavenbatonrouge.com.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
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