Mary Marianetti

Mary Marianetti obituary, Rochester, NY

Mary Marianetti

Mary Marianetti Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by DiPonzio Funeral Home, Inc. on Nov. 18, 2025.

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Marianetti, Mary (Renda)
Gates: Wednesday, October 8, 2025, surrounded by her family, at age 61. Predeceased by her father, Christopher Renda. She is survived by her loving spouse of 36 years, Guy J. Marianetti; daughters, Gabrielle (Michael) Castellano and Julia (Justin) Daley; grandchildren, Jameson & Maya Castellano and Sullivan Daley; mother, Anne Renda; brother, John (Laurie) Renda; sister Carolyn (Michael) D'Ambrosia; sisters-in-law, brother-in-law, nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.
Mary was a retired educator from Brookview School in West Irondequoit and was an active parishioner at St. Theodore Church.
Friends may call Wednesday from 3:00-7:00 pm at DiPonzio Funeral Home, Inc., 219 Spencerport Road, Gates. On Thursday, Oct. 16, all are invited to attend her Funeral Mass at 10:00 am at St. Theodore Church. Inurnment, Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Theodore Church, 168 Spencerport Road, Rochester, NY 14606 in her memory.

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