Mary Cathleen Renckens

Mary Cathleen Renckens, born July 31, 1955 in Dunkirk, New York passed away on October 13, 2025 in Charlotte North Carolina. She was a warm-hearted, flamboyant friend, sister, aunt, and daughter. In every role she played, Mary was vivid, memorable, and deeply committed to the many communities she was part of. Fiercely devoted to her family-both the one she was born into and the one she chose in the recovery community-Mary lived a life of service, love, and authenticity.

A graduate in social work from Western Carolina University, she worked with incarcerated individuals, offering them compassion and support. She had a deep love for spirituality, water, the mountains, and her Higher Power-whom she came to know through her recovery journey.

Mary was known for her generosity and quirks: she often handed out sky lanterns, thrift store treasures, and whatever happened to be on her mind. She loved all of us deeply-and we loved her right back.

The second oldest of five siblings, Mary spent her life helping others while also standing her ground. She was a proud friend of Bill W. for over 36 years and credited her sobriety as the foundation for her health, happiness, and purpose. She brought humor and joy to her recovery, sponsoring and encouraging countless others to pursue their best selves.

Mary was a true helper and a bright spirit who touched many lives. Her memory will live on in our hearts.

She was predeceased by her parents Bob Renckens and Peg O'Connor and her brother Mike.

She is survived by her sister Karen Clanton and her husband Sid. Her brother Tim Renckens and his wife Susan, her brother Tom Renckens and his wife Sarah Fagg and especially her beloved nieces and nephews Carly, Jessie, Paul, Daniel, and Andy.

Service to be held on Sunday October 19th at 10:30am Galilee Ministries 3601 Central Ave. Charlotte NC 28205

Carolina Cremation is assisting the Renckens family. Online condolences may be made at www.carolinacremation.com.