Mary Lou Surmik

Mary Lou Surmik obituary

Mary Lou Surmik

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918 Upper Front Street, NY 13903

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Mary Surmik Obituary

Published by Legacy on Sep. 7, 2025.
Mary Lou Surmik, 77, unexpectedly passed away in her home on Sunday, September 7, 2025. Mary Lou was predeceased by her beloved husband, William (Bill) Surmik; her parents, Albert and Margaret Quackenbush; sister, Barbara Quackenbush. Mary Lou is survived by her three children, Michelle Dunda, Brian Surmik, Christopher Surmik; her sister, Christine Olson; grandchildren; a niece, nephews, cousins and extended family and friends.

A proud member of the Vestal High School, Class of 1966, Mary Lou cherished her time going to lunch and having game days with them. She began her career at IBM and later retired from Catholic Charities. She volunteered at CHOW and the soup kitchen. Mary Lou treasured spending time with her beloved husband, Bill, at car shows, proudly showcasing their Corvettes. She was a dedicated member of the Southern Tier Mother of Twins Club, attending 30 NY State MOTC Conventions, alongside her longtime friend, Shirley Savage. The two shared many memorable moments and adventures. Her membership sparked her love for collecting turtles "Are You a Turtle?". Mary Lou also had a passion for traveling and shared many trips together with her daughter, Michelle and grandchildren. She enjoyed hosting her "Tuesday Ladies' Card Party" at her house, loved painting ceramics, attending jewelry parties and had a host of other activities she enjoyed, even up until last week. We mustn't overlook that she was an exceptional dog sitter for, Stacy girl, and adored her playful cat, Holly Bell. She had a profound love for life, her time spent with her grandchildren, family, and friends.

The family will receive friends Friday, September 19, 2025 from 4:00 to 5:00 p.m. with memorial services immediately following at 5:00 p.m. at the Nimmonsburg United Methodist Church, 918 Upper Front Street, Binghamton, NY.

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September 10, 2025

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September 10, 2025

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September 10, 2025

Kathy & Duane Jones posted to the memorial.

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Gloria Landon Marshall

September 10, 2025

I was so shocked to read about Mary Lou´s passing. Just reconnected with her this year as I had lived out of state for the past ten years. Mary Lou was so very sweet and friendly. Rest in peace Mary Lou! Sincerest condolences to her friends and family.

Melissa Lencioni Owens

September 10, 2025

My deepest sympathy to you and your family Michelle.

Kathy & Duane Jones

September 10, 2025

We are shocked and saddened to read of your dear mother´s passing. No words seem right other than she was GREAT person. We send our LOVE and prayers for your whole family.

Sierra dunda

September 10, 2025

I will always remember all the good memories I made with you grandma, I´ll always remember us staying up late watching lifetime and eating snacks. We always had fun playing bored game together. I will never forget you. You will always be in my heart. I love you grandma so much.

Amanda Svoboda

September 9, 2025

Such fond memories of MaryLou from IBM. She had not had life easy but she always had a smile on her face! Such fond memories of her Survivor themed parties at work and her stories about her beloved grandbabies. I´m so sorry to hear of her passing.

Sherry

September 9, 2025

Maryland was a wonderful person. So sorry for your loss. Enjoyed conventions and Twins meetings with her.

Cheryl Durgala

September 9, 2025

MaryLou you are very much missed. It does not seem to be real. You are very dearly missed. Enjoy your husband!

Bonnie Smith

September 9, 2025

I'm so sorry and shocked to read of the passing of Mary Lou. We worked together at IBM. Mary Lou was the sweetest co-worker ever and I know she LOVED her family!!! RIP

Cheryl Brooks Finley

September 9, 2025

So many of our classmates have passed way too soon. She was a very sweet and caring person and will be missed.

Mike Conpropst

September 9, 2025

I´m so very sorry to hear of her passing. I worked with her at Catholic Charities and she was one of my favorite people. My deepest condolences to her family.

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5:00 p.m.

Nimmonsburg United Methodist Church

918 Upper Front Street, NY 13903

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