Mathew Nearpass

Mathew Nearpass obituary, Rochester, NY

Mathew Nearpass

Mathew Nearpass Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Miller Funeral and Cremation Services, Inc. - Victor on May 2, 2025.

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Mathew (Matt) Nearpass, age 49, passed away suddenly on April 28, 2025, leaving behind devastated family and friends who loved him deeply.
Matt is survived by his wife of 23 years, Renee; daughter Alia (21); son Hayden (19); parents Robert and Lynette Nearpass; brother Gregory (Kate) Nearpass; many loving cousins, nieces, nephews, aunts and uncles; as well as his loyal guard dog Lily and extremely fancy cat, Marty.
Matt was born on February 17, 1976 in Geneva, NY and grew up in Seneca Falls, NY where he played high school tennis and enjoyed a childhood full of small-town shenanigans. An excellent student, Matt graduated high school early to attend Clarkson University, where he earned a computer engineering degree in 1997.
While attending Clarkson, Matt met his wife Renee, and, after graduating, they married and embarked on a world adventure. Matt took a job with Harris Corporation that took them to Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates from 2000-2005, where they celebrated the birth of their first child, daughter Alia, in 2004. The family welcomed their son Hayden in 2005 after moving home to Victor, NY. Since then, Matt left a lasting impact as a member of the Victor community for more than 20 years. He served on the Town of Victor Zoning Board of Appeals for 17 years, most recently as Vice Chair. He and his brother also owned Cork 49 Wine Bar in the Village of Victor from 2017-2020.
Matt's life was centered on his family and dedication to his work, but he made time for wide-ranging hobbies and interests. He learned to play the guitar, tried his hand at fly fishing, and earned his small aircraft pilot's license. Matt also attended viticulture school at Finger Lakes Community College in 2016 and, with his newly-acquired knowledge, purchased land in the Finger Lakes where he leaves a legacy of vines overlooking beautiful Keuka Lake and in view of his family's beloved second home. Matt's first grapes were harvested last year and will be bottled next year by Vineyard View Winery, where he also served as occasional guest winemaker.
Calling hours will be held at Miller Funeral Home in Victor, New York on Tuesday, May 6, 2025 from 4-7 p.m. A prayer service will be held at St. Catherine of Siena in Mendon, New York on Wednesday, May 7, 2025 at 10 a.m. All who loved and wish to remember Matt are welcome to attend. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the Australian Cattle Dog Rescue Association https://www.acdra.org/donate.

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Lynn Kerr

May 7, 2025

Dear Renee, I am so sorry for your loss. You and yours are in my thoughts and prayers. I wish words could help heal the hurt.
Sincerely,
Lynn Kerr

Daromell Jackson

May 6, 2025

Dear Renee and Nearpass family, sending prayers and condolences. May God grant you peace and comfort during this difficult time.
Love,
Daromell Jackson- BCCR Research Committee

Lorre Cervi

May 5, 2025

Sending love and prayers to you and your family at this very difficult time.
So very sorry. Dick & Lorre Cervi.

Alan Callaghan

May 5, 2025

Alan Callaghan - Australia. Just like to add my condolences on the untimely passing of Matt. I worked alongside Matt for several years and greatly admired his dedication, energy and work ethic. Most importantly Matt was a wonderful human being and was always proactive in helping his friends and colleagues in whatever way he could. Matt will be sorely missed by the whole Australian team: he will never be forgotten!!!

Susan Yovanoff

May 2, 2025

Renee, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time. May your many fond memories of times spent together bring you comfort.

In sympathy,
Susan Yovanoff

Brian Gardinier

May 2, 2025

Renee, Alia, Hayden, Bob, Lynette and Greg - my heartfelt condolences to your family for your loss. As a former colleague at Harris, I considered him a first-class individual, genuine and a person with high integrity. Matt was always someone you could count on whether it be guidance on a product, program or someone to 'bounce something off of.' May your happy memories give you peace and comfort during this challenging time.

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