Michael J Colletta

Michael J Colletta obituary, Kings Park, NY

Michael J Colletta

Michael Colletta Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Clayton Funeral Home, Inc. - Kings Park on Mar. 9, 2025.

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It is with deep sorrow that we announce the passing of Michael J. Colletta, beloved father to Mailyn, son to Marilyn and Joseph, brother to Peter, and friend to many, who left us on March 7, 2025, at the age of 50.
Born on August 1, 1974, in Smithtown, NY, Michael was raised in the community he loved. He was a proud graduate of Smithtown High School West and went on to earn his Bachelor's degree from SUNY Oswego, where he was an active member of the Alpha Epsilon Pi fraternity, forging lifelong friendships. His passion for education led him to further his studies, earning a Master's degree from Stony Brook University, and he pursued his calling as a technology education teacher.
Michael began his teaching career at Smithtown Accompsett Middle School, where he had once been a student himself. It was there that he made a lasting impact on the lives of countless students, inspiring a love of learning and technology. Michael was dedicated to his students, coaching girls' lacrosse for many years, running the middle school talent show, and guiding the robotics team to success.
Outside of the classroom, Michael was deeply involved in his community. He served as a trustee for The Swan Lake Park Civic Association from 2015 to 2023, volunteering his time and skills to improve his neighborhood. Whether it was building parade floats, restoring parts of the community house, or organizing fundraisers, Michael was always ready to lend a hand to help make his community a better place.
Michael was an avid drummer, and music played a central role in his life. He enjoyed sharing this passion with friends and family, particularly with his daughter, Mailyn, with whom he shared a special bond. Michael's greatest love in life was his daughter. Together, they enjoyed vacations, from magical trips to Disney to fun-filled line dancing at Rocking Horse. They were an inseparable duo, an unstoppable team.
Michael's bond with his older brother, Peter, was a cornerstone of Michael's life. Peter was not only Michael's older brother but also his best friend, a constant source of support and companionship.
Michael's legacy will be remembered for his laughter, his zest for life, and his larger-than-life personality. He lived life with an infectious energy, always reminding others to laugh, dance, and smile, while embracing the important things in life and letting go of the small stuff. His generosity, warmth, and love will be missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him.
Michael is survived by his daughter, Mailyn, his father, Joseph and his wife, Joan, his brother, Peter, and sister-in-law, Kelly, and his cherished niece, Katie.
Rest in peace, Michael. Your legacy lives on in your daughter, your students, your friends, and all those whose lives you touched. Michael will be at rest with his mother at St. Charles Cemetery.

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March 18, 2025

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March 10, 2025

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March 10, 2025

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Accompsett Student

March 18, 2025

Mr. Colletta was one of the funniest, enthusiastic, and enjoyable teachers we've ever had. When you talked with him, it was like talking with a close friend. We'll always miss you and your cheese puns.

A B

March 10, 2025

Mr. Colletta was my favorite teacher at Accompsett Middle School. From when I had his class, I was welcomed and excited to learn; I formed a bond with him and began to visit him throughout my time at school. When I went off to other classes in school, I made sure to visit him, draw pictures, and share with my peers what I had learned. He forever stuck with me; he was a wonderful person. I enjoyed hearing about what he had accomplished and the amazing things he hoped to achieve.

His enthusiasm for education was contagious, inspiring not only me but countless other students to pursue our passions with the same fervor he demonstrated every day. I still remember the sparkle in his eyes when he talked about his love for technology and his admiration for music.
Mr. Colletta had a unique ability to connect even the most mundane subjects to the real world, making us see the relevance of our studies in our everyday lives.

I also fondly recall the way he encouraged us to think critically and creatively. Whether it was through debates in the classroom or projects that challenged our perspectives, he pushed us to voice our opinions and understand the importance of listening to one another. Through his guidance, I learned the value of respect and collaboration, lessons that have shaped me into the person I am today.

After I left middle school and moved on to high school, I would often reflect on the foundation he had built for me. His wisdom and kindness were not just limited to academic subjects; he taught us life lessons that I carry with me even now. The values he instilled in me-integrity, curiosity, and empathy-are ones I strive to embody in every aspect of my life.

I hope Mr. Colletta is at peace, knowing that his legacy lives on in all of us who had the privilege of learning from him. His impact on my life and the lives of so many others is immeasurable, and he will forever stay in my heart as a beacon of inspiration and a reminder of the power of a great teacher.

Forever in my heart, rest in peace Mr. Colletta.

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March 18, 2025

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