Michael E. DeSpirito

Michael E. DeSpirito obituary

Michael E. DeSpirito

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971 Saratoga St., East Boston, MA 02128

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Saint Joseph - Saint Lazarus Church

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Michael DeSpirito Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Ruggiero Family Memorial Home - East Boston on Aug. 31, 2025.

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Michael Edward DeSpirito, of Winthrop, formerly of East Boston, passed away on Tuesday, August 26, 2025.

He was the devoted son of the late Edward and Jennie DeSpirito, and the beloved husband of Jacqueline (Brunelle) DeSpirito. Michael was the loving father of Ellie "Jenna" DeSpirito, Kristina Ventresca and her husband Michael, Michael Susi and his wife Kim, and Alessandra Susi and her fiancé Tim Dalton. Cherished brother of Karen DeSpirito. Proud uncle of Krista Carlson and her husband Scott, and Kayleigh Carlson.

Michael was a proud and adoring grandfather to Michael Ventresca, Grayson Susi, and Theo Susi. He also shared a special bond with his feline pal, Luna. He will be deeply missed by his many cousins, extended family, and countless friends.

Not only was Michael a pillar of strength to his countless friends, and his dear family, he devoted his life to helping numerous people find recovery. He was instrumental in founding the drug court in the East Boston court system; giving a second chance in life to many. No matter what you were going through, Michael would be there with advice and a joke to make you crack a smile just when you thought you couldn't.

While he liked to make up his own lyrics, Michael was a true lover of music and could name off any Beatles song. He was also a big fan of old Western's and perhaps in another life was the closest an East Boston man could ever get to being a cowboy. Michael lives on in the countless nicknames he has given to anyone lucky enough to cross his path, the stories he has retold enough times that we can all recite them, and his timeless sense of fashion-including Hawaiian shirts.

Family and friends will honor Michael's life by gathering at the Ruggiero Family Memorial Home, East Boston, on Friday, September 5th from 4:00 PM to 8:00 PM, and again on Saturday morning at 9:00 A.M. before leaving in procession to St. Joseph – St. Lazarus Church, East Boston, for a 10:00 AM Funeral Mass. Michael will be laid to rest at Holy Cross Mausoleum in Malden.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Michael's memory may be made to the Meridian House, online at https://web.charityengine.net/Default.aspx?tsid=28869 or checks payable to North Suffolk Community Services may be sent to 301 Broadway, Chelsea MA 02150. Please note the donation should be directed to Meridian House.

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Upcoming Events

Sep

5

Visitation

4:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Ruggiero Family Memorial Home

971 Saratoga St., East Boston, MA 02128

Send Flowers

Sep

6

Service

9:00 a.m. - 9:30 a.m.

Ruggiero Family Memorial Home

971 Saratoga St., East Boston, MA 02128

Send Flowers

Sep

6

Funeral Mass

10:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

Saint Joseph - Saint Lazarus Church

59 Ashley St., East Boston, MA 02128

Send Flowers

Sep

6

Committal

11:15 a.m. - 12:00 p.m.

Holy Cross Cemetery

175 Broadway, Malden, MA 02148

Send Flowers

Only 4 days left for delivery to next service.