Michael J. Foley

Michael J. Foley

Michael Foley Obituary

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PAXTON – Michael J. Foley, 60, beloved husband of Cindy (Starkey) Foley, passed away unexpectedly on Monday, January 23, 2023. Born in Worcester and raised in Paxton, he was a son of the late William and Marilyn (Jerome) Foley.
Michael was a lifelong resident of Paxton. After graduating from Wachusett Regional High School, he went on to further his education at UMass-Amherst where he earned a bachelor's degree and Anna Maria College, where he received his master's degree. He was a software engineer for many years and was recently semi-retired.
He was a unique man who enjoyed dressing up for evenings spent at the Canal District in Worcester, where he enjoyed singing and dancing with friends. Michael supported several local artists and was a talented artist himself. He was known for his charcoal portraits. He will be remembered as an advocate for socialist alternatives, and always put 150% into causes that were important to him.
Michael will be lovingly missed and remembered by his wife of 27 years, Cindy Foley; his son, Ethan Foley and his partner, Shayla DeGeorge of Paxton; his daughter, Elise Foley and her fiancé, Natalie Pelletier of Portland, ME; a brother, Thomas Foley and his wife, Junko of Japan; two sisters, Mary Foley and her partner, Lawrence Healy of Lakeville, MA and Patricia Foley-Reid and her husband, Jack of Littleton; two nieces and two nephews; and his faithful companion, Bonnie.
Arrangements are private and under the care of Miles Funeral Home, 1158 Main Street, Holden. Donations may be made to Abby's House, 52 High Street, Worcester, MA 01609. To share a memory or offer an online condolence, please visit the "Tribute Wall" on this page.

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Kevin Earls

February 6, 2023

I´m very, very sorry to hear about Mike´s passing. Mike was a great guy and certainly one of the most unique people I´ve ever known. He was a great co-worker and friend. I´ll always remember fondly our work together both at SilverStream and Red Hat, and the week we got to spend together at the Tour de Cure in 2008.

Carolyn Manzi

February 4, 2023

Sending all my love to your family at this time. Michael was such a unique, creative loving spirit. I´m so sad I did not get to see him more recently. I have very fond memories of us in summer school at UMass together sharing rides back and forth to Paxton. We bonded later in life over our love of Westies, art and creative self expression of which he is a master. Regrettably, I will not be able to attend his celebration of life but my heart is with you all. I know that Michael is causing a stir and a fun filled celebration in his new home!!! What a gift he was to all who knew him. So grateful that I had the opportunity to be his friend.

Chuck and Kay Kingsbury

February 2, 2023

Cindy, we are very sorry to hear of your loss of Michael. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort in your memories together.

John Woods 28th Mass

February 1, 2023

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

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