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Bullmastiff
January 22, 2024
I do not remember the exact 1st time I met Mike Zehnacker or when I made the connection of who Mike was to me. I do remember what brought me to that connection, my dog.
The 1st time are paths crossed Mike commented on my dog. Whenever our paths crossed from that point on, he would always say..." How´s the dog?" weather my dog was with me or not. One of those times I replied, she´s not, she passed.
Eventually our family welcomed a new dog, who Mike met. Mike asked, "Why a mastiff? I answered, my husband was battling cancer for a 2nd time & that he said, "When I beat this cancer, I want my own dog." So a bullmastiff it was! Bullmastiffs are gentle, loyal, affectionate. They are calm & easy-going, yet large & powerful. That my husband wanted to visit cancer patients with his dog while they waited for their appointment/treatment, as well as veterans. Once my husband´s treatments were completed, surgery awaited. I explained this was where the "large & powerful" aspect of a bullmastiff may be important. Surgery would determine if my husband would awaken with both of his arms or one, as the extent that the tumor had entangled itself would not be known until in surgery. Before parting ways, Mike said..." I have tenants who have a bullmastiff."
The next time our paths crossed, I asked in which area was his rental property with the bullmastiff. "Walkersville", he answered. I told Michael I thought my husband & I with our 4 children were his tenants. I gave him the address. He confirmed with a nod and a yes.
I do not know how many people are aware, Mike never increased our monthly rent in all 10, going on 11 years that his house has been our home. Mike continued to allow his house to be our home with out ever asking about our financial constraints. He allowed us to have a safe haven & peace of mind to battle my husband´s illness together, rest are heads, care for our 4 children, be in close proximity to my mother-in-law whose house happens to be on the same street and to have our bullmastiff therapy dog.
I do not know how long Mike knew about my husband´s illness. To think back,10 years going on 11 years, from needing a house to rent for 1 year...that welcomed dogs...that ended up being on the same street as my mother-in-law, in the Glade Elementary school district to haphazardly crossing paths with a dog lover who one day asked, "Why a bullmastiff?", to discovering this person was our landlord. This was more than coincidence.
God crossed our family´s path with an angel here on earth, Mike. We are blessed & grateful for all that Mike has done for our family. He has helped our family & never yearned for recognition. He was an anonymous person doing god´s way here on earth. That is why I share my family's story regarding Mike. I was not sure if this was appropriate to share, but in my heart it is. It is important for those who are his family & friends to know of his unknown selfless good acts. This is why this is written/shared so late. He is deserving of recognition, love and gratitude.
Whether human or four legged, his church, organizations & community, we have all been touched to have had Mike share or cross our paths. We mourn his absence.
Our plans were to stay in Mike´s house, as it is our home. My husband continues to be seen by oncologists every 3 months. CAT & MRI scans every 6 months until this past December. In December my husband had a PET scan as two new findings were discovered. He is now back to every 3 months for CAT scans.
We do not know what will happen when our lease ends. Though we have been so blessed through Mike, we are now scared. No longer do we have the security of a home that Mike shared to us with peace & safety to handle what life lay ahead of us & the ability to help my mother-in-law in such close proximity as she ages.
I do not think we are in a position to purchase our home. Even though this was a discussion Mike had introduced to us.
If I may respectfully and humble myself to ask at this moment, if there is someone who would be willing to help & guide our family, we would be, heart-fully grateful.
In memory of Mike
Janice (Bradshaw) Bausch
July 27, 2023
ZENNY was truly one of the good guys. We spent a lot of time together in the early 70´s. Once he took me to see Chicago at the Capital Center! IT WAS A BLAST!! He even came down to visit us once when we lived in Gtown DE. I haven´t seen ZENNY in a few years but we would chat on the phone once or twice a year. He would do ANYTHING for you! He was always kind, generous and funny! I know I will miss him and hearing about his rides, runs or frisbee! Rest I. Peace dear old friend.
Mike Orsini
July 23, 2023
I will never forget Mike Z, which I called him. The many 5:00am runs we had from the gym Fitness First. He was always smiling and always gave me tips on running. You will be missed Mike Z, but be sure to know that you will always be a Rock Star in my book.
Rest peacefully my friend!
Mike Orsini
Billy & Risa Clem
July 22, 2023
Mike will be missed by his many friends in Frederick. He made his running buddies laugh and smile every day he spent with them. The few times I jumped in with their group Mike invited me in like I was one of their regulars. He was kind, funny, caring, generous, and welcoming, what more could you ask for in a person. He was a great human and has left a lasting impression on his dear friends that they will carry with them throughout their lives.
Your kindness has made a difference in this crazy world Mike.
May your family and friends find peace in the joy you brought into their lives.
Kevin Riley
July 19, 2023
You'll be missed Zenny. A quote from Thomas Wilder, "It's hard to turn the page when you know someone won't be in the next chapter, but the story must continue." Fond memories of him, long ago, when he bought me, Sly and Family Stone for my confirmation.
Joseph Chornock
July 18, 2023
I am sorry sorry for the family´s loss, may his memory be a blessing. Thoughts and prayers from the Robert E Peary Classmates
Chet and Ann Tyminski
July 18, 2023
We knew Mike as a caring husband to our friend, Carol.
In fact we were honored that they asked us to be the witnesses at their marriage many years ago.
Heather
July 18, 2023
Dear Vicki and family,
Wishing you peace and comfort as you mourn the loss of your stepdad.
Love, the Kufta's
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