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Michael Tobias obituary, Defiance, OH

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Schaffer Funeral Home

529 Jefferson Ave

Defiance, Ohio

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Sep. 14, 2025

3:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Cooney Funeral Home

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Michael Tobias Obituary

CHICAGO, IL - It is with much love and sadness that we share the tragic passing of Michael R. Tobias, age 50. Mike's sudden and unexpected death is a devastating loss for his family, friends, and all who were fortunate to know him.

Born on August 23, 1975, in Defiance, Ohio, Mike was a devoted husband, father, son, brother, uncle, and friend. He was a loving and supportive husband to Susan, his wife of 16 years, and an extraordinary father to their three children: Cameron (15), Cole (14), and Quinn (12). His unwavering dedication to his family was the cornerstone of his life.

Those who knew Mike will remember his warmth, kindness, and easy-going nature. He was selfless, warmhearted, steadfast, and dependable. Whether watching countless basketball games, coaching from the sidelines, relaxing on the beach in South Haven, or vacationing with his family, Mike created lasting memories that will continue to guide and inspire his children. His greatest joy was time spent with family and friends.

Mike is survived by his wife, Sue, and their children, Cam, Cole, and Quinn; his father, Richard Tobias; his brothers, Marc Tobias (Sarah, Jack and Kate) and Craig Tobias (Reyna, Landen and Brielle); his sister-in-law, Julia Daly (Ruby and Tommy); his brothers-in-law, Thomas Daly (Judy, Danielle and Darcy), Eugene Daly (Liz, Sam and Andrew), and Timothy Daly (Hollie and Rosy); and his loyal pup, Indie. He was preceded in death by his beloved mother, Janet Tobias.

A visitation will be held on Sunday, September 14, from 3-8 p.m. at Cooney Funeral Home (625 Busse Hwy., Park Ridge). A Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Monday, September 15, at 10 a.m. at St. Paul of the Cross (140 S. Northwest Hwy., Park Ridge). Burial services will follow at Maryhill Cemetery (8600 N. Milwaukee Ave., Niles).

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations be made to a GoFundMe campaign https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-the-tobias-family to support the future needs of his children.

Sue and the children wish to thank their extended family, friends, and the community for their overwhelming support and outpouring of kindness during this most difficult time. Sue also expresses her deepest gratitude to her niece Ruby and her husband Tommy, as well as her sister Julie, for their extraordinary love and unwavering support over these past six weeks.

There are no words to fully capture how deeply Mike will be missed, but his family is forever grateful for every moment shared and every memory made. We love you, Mike.

Cooney Funeral Home: 847-685-1002 www.cooneyfuneralhome.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Crescent-News on Sep. 10, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Michael Tobias

Sep

14

Visitation

3:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Cooney Funeral Home

625 Busse Hwy, Park Ridge, IL 60068

Sep

15

Funeral Mass

10:00 a.m.

St. Paul of the Cross Church (South Washington Street, Park Ridge, Illinois)

Funeral services provided by:

Schaffer Funeral Home

529 Jefferson Ave, Defiance, OH 43512

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