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Michelle Dorren DeSantis, a beloved partner, devoted daughter, sister, and aunt whose generosity knew no bounds, passed away peacefully on October 25, 2025, just ten days after celebrating her 51st birthday. Born on October 15, 1974, Michelle lived a life marked by deep family love, creativity, and a quiet, selfless dedication to caring for all those around her.
For many years, Michelle worked as a respected Allstate agent. Yet, it was her compassionate heart that truly defined her. She was the person everyone relied on—a tireless giver who made sure her loved ones were always taken care of before herself.
Michelle poured her vibrant spirit into her passions. She was a gifted painter, translating her energy onto the canvas. She loved the thrill of live concerts, the open road of a road trip, and the simple, unconditional love of dogs. Her warmth and enthusiasm enriched the lives of all who knew her.
She shared a beautiful and enduring life with her partner, Michael Delrosso. Their connection was a source of great happiness and support. Michelle extended her generous spirit and deep commitment to Michael’s family, playing a significant and loving role in helping to raise his nephews, Jack and Vincent Labarbera, whom she adored.
Michelle was the cherished daughter of Doreen DeSantis and the late Joseph DeSantis. She is survived by her loving mother, Doreen, and her devoted brother, Chris DeSantis. She also leaves behind her dearest friends, whom she lovingly called her sisters, Bonnie, Ali, and Jaime, as well as her beloved nieces and nephews — Lilly, Freddy, Ben, and Jameson.
Michelle’s vibrant presence, her infectious laughter, and her deep, selfless kindness will be profoundly missed by her mother, brother, partner, nephews, and a wide circle of friends and extended family. Her memory will be cherished and kept alive by the beautiful legacy of care and devotion she leaves behind.
132 Ronkonkoma Avenue, Lake Ronkonkoma, NY 11779


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