Nancy Contilli

Nancy Contilli obituary, Cambridge, MA

Nancy Contilli

Nancy Contilli Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by DeVito Funeral Home on Jul. 28, 2025.

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Nancy McCarthy Contilli (Roderick) of Belmont died on July 26 surrounded by her five beautiful children and close family after a long and hard fought battle with cancer. Wife of the late Richard Contilli and former spouse of Kevin McCarthy. Loving mother of Nicole Roy and her husband Derek of Nashua, NH, Kerin Joyce and her husband David of Chelmsford, Michael McCarthy and his wife Courtney of Grafton, Matthew McCarthy and his wife Kristyn of Chelmsford and Jonathan McCarthy of Waltham. Proud and loving grandmother of Kendra Joyce, Ainsley Roy, William Joyce, John, Shaelyn, Cody, Sam and Genevieve McCarthy. She loved her grand dog Marty McFly. Survived by her three sisters and also many nieces, nephews and cousins.

Nancy was known for her quick wit, sense of humor, and strong spirit. Her love for her children and grandchildren was evident, and she showed them affection every chance she could. She was always equipped with snacks, toys, and words of encouragement. Her grandchildren adored her.

Nancy had a big heart. She provided comfort and reassurance to anybody who needed it. Her ability to listen and offer support was only out weighed by her ability to talk nonstop for hours. She loved a good joke or riddle. She was known to always have a Kleenex up her sleeve.

A proud Italian and lifelong night owl, she enjoyed watching old movies, 60s music, playing Po-Ke-No, Bingo, and Italian pastry. Her clam sauce and meatballs were legendary and friends and family often showed up with take-home containers in hopes of receiving leftovers, if there were any.

The family would like to extend its sincerest thanks and appreciation to the Mount Auburn Hospital Oncology Department for the care and comfort provided especially by Nancy's Oncology nurse, Denise Natalie, and all the nurses, doctors and staff who were by her side right up to the end.

Relatives and friends are invited to visit the DeVito funeral home, 761 Mount Auburn St., Watertown on Wednesday from 5 PM to 8 PM and her funeral mass on Thursday at 10 AM at St. Luke's Church, Belmont. Please go directly to the church. In lieu of flowers, donations are requested to Saint Jude Children's Research Hospital. Please visit devitofuneralhome.com to view an online guestbook.

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DeVito Funeral Home

761 Mount Auburn Street, Watertown, MA 02472

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