Nancy Helander Obituary
Nancy was a devoted mother who loved her sons fiercely and adored them deeply. She is survived by her sons, Sean Parsons (and his wife, Jodi Comfort), Ryan Helander and Kyle Helander, and by her grandchildren, Kylie Helander, Layla Helander, and Noah Lawler. She is also lovingly remembered by her siblings, Carol Mears Logan, Roy Mears, Diane Mears Pappa, Betty Mears Rhoads, Dolores Mears Ahokas and Tim Mears. She was predeceased by her parents, Arthur W. and Rita J. Mears and her brothers Tony Mears and Larry Mears.
Nancy was known for her vibrant personality and the outfits that matched it. She possessed incredible wit and a wonderful sense of humor – her own "sense of hue-mar" as she liked to say. Her very generous spirit and deep love for animals were constants throughout her life; she never hesitated to rescue or care for any creature in need.
Some of Nancy's happiest moments were spent Latin dancing with her sisters late into the night or taking her kids to Dubois Park FL to fish & swim. She treasured family gatherings, brunches and the simple joy of watching her dogs play. Her warmth and enthusiasm left a lasting impression on everyone she met; she had a remarkable ability to brighten people's day with just the sound of her voice and her quick wit.
Nancy was one of Jehovah's Witnesses and found strength in her faith throughout her life. Even when she could no longer attend meetings in person or serve in the ways she wished, she continued supporting her congregation by stuffing envelopes and attending meetings online.
A Celebration of Life will be held at a later date to honor Nancy's memory. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in her name to the Humane Society or the Animal Rescue of your choice.
May her memory bring comfort to all who knew and loved her.
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Kara
February 3, 2026
I am so sorry for your loss. May the God of all comfort give you some peace at this time.
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