Nell C. Oxendine

Nell C. Oxendine obituary, Alexandria, VA

Nell C. Oxendine

Nell Oxendine Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Cunningham Turch Funeral & Cremation Services - Alexandria on Oct. 1, 2025.

Publish in a newspaper

'Nell C. Oxendine, born in Rawl, WV, passed away on 27 August 2024 in Alexandria, VA. Nell, affectionately known as "Mamaw" by her family, is survived by Blaine and Oscar Reyes and her grandson, Eric.
A world traveler who has visited all 50 of the United States and 31 countries, and moved her household 34 times, Mamaw, loved the intricate plots of Agatha Christies mysteries and the clever deductions of Hercule Poirot. She also loved the beach, interior decorating, and Indonesian Shower trees. She had a talent for creating thought-provoking, playful, and profound statements. Some of her favorite quotes were:
'Sometimes I believe six impossible things before breakfast.', 'A ship in harbor is safe, but that's not what ships are for.', "Life is a party. Dress like it.", "Theres a shade of red for every woman.", "Elegance is the only beauty that never fades.", and one of her all-time favorites, "Life is a beach."
To further show her adventurous nature, she had mentioned that her ideal way to pass would be by "drag racing" on Crystal Drive at 4:00 am.
Her ashes will be scatted off of the Hawaiian island of Oahu near Hanauma Bay where she snorkeled almost daily while living there, North Carolina, where she defied the elements by walking the beach even amidst the fury of tropical storms and hurricanes, and in the Mediterranean Sea off the coast of Italy, one of her favorite places to enjoy a cappuccino and people watch.
In her honor, there will be a private Celebration of Life, a cocktail party, which will be held at her favorite local restaurant, Clydes.
In place of flowers or donations, please plant trees, travel, start on your bucket list NOW, and drink a cappuccino or a top-shelf margarita in her honor.
Whenever she is missed, visit her at the beach!' To plant a beautiful memorial tree in memory of Nell, please visit our Tree Store.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

How to support Nell's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Nell Oxendine's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Sign Nell Oxendine's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?