Nicholas Monaco

Nicholas Monaco obituary, Poughquag, NY

Nicholas Monaco

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St. Columba Church

835 Route 82, Hopewell Junction, NY 12533

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St. Denis Cemetery

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Nicholas Monaco Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by McHoul Funeral Home, Inc. - Hopewell Junction on Feb. 8, 2026.
Nicholas "Gramps" Monaco, a resident of Poughquag, NY, since 2018 and formerly of Yonkers, NY, passed away peacefully at home on February 6, 2026, surrounded by the love of his devoted family.

Born in the Bronx, NY, on July 3, 1952, Nicholas was the beloved son of the late John and Rose (Campone) Monaco. On September 17, 1971, he married the one true love of his life, Valerie (D'Augelli), in Maryland. Together, they shared over 54 years of unwavering love, laughter, and partnership. Valerie survives at home and was the center of his world.

Nicholas lived life on his own terms and with great joy. He loved hunting, fishing, golfing, enjoying a good cigar, keeping up with Fox News, and never missed a chance to talk about the Yonkers Racetrack. Known affectionately as "Gramps" to so many - especially the Arlington Boys Bowling Team - he wore that title with pride and love.

Gramps had a heart bigger than the moon. He was endlessly giving, deeply kind, and a true family man in every sense of the word. Family always came first, and he would willingly go without for himself if it meant helping someone else, even a stranger. His generosity, loyalty, and strength left a lasting impression on everyone who knew him.

In addition to his beloved wife Valerie, Nicholas is survived by his loving children: John (Lisa) Monaco, Nicole (Jeff) Rufino, Jennifer Monaco (Ivan Ortega), and Marianna Monaco (Emily Burgess). He was a proud and devoted grandfather to Carly, Johnny (Marlia), Dominic (Reyna), Ivan Jr., and Katerina. He is also survived by his siblings: Thomas (Randi) Monaco, Anthony (Sara) Monaco, Rosemarie (Joe) Romano, Donald (Patricia) Simon, along with many cherished nieces, nephews, great-nieces and great-nephews, cousins, and dear friends and grand-dogs Tequila, Chula, Bella, Rylee, Rani, Buddy, and Cooper and grand-cat Samantha.

In addition to his parents, Nicholas was predeceased by his brother John.

Calling hours will be held on Thursday, February 12, 2026, from 3:00 PM to 8:00 PM at McHoul Funeral Home, Inc., 895 Route 82, Hopewell Junction, NY 12533. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, February 13, 2026, at 10:00 AM at St. Columba Church, 835 Route 82, Hopewell Junction, NY 12533. Interment will follow at St. Denis Cemetery, 604 Beekman Road, Hopewell Junction, NY 12533.

Nicholas "Gramps" Monaco will be forever loved, deeply missed, and remembered for his enormous heart, his devotion to family, and the countless lives he touched.

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Upcoming Events

Feb

12

Visitation

3:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

McHoul Funeral Home, Inc.

895 Route 82, Hopewell Junction, NY 12533

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Feb

13

Mass of Christian Burial

10:00 a.m.

St. Columba Church

835 Route 82, Hopewell Junction, NY 12533

Send FlowersBook nearby hotels

Feb

13

Burial

11:15 a.m.

St. Denis Cemetery

604 Beekman Road, Hopewell Junction, NY 12533

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Only 3 days left for delivery to next service.