Oakley B. Farris

Oakley Farris, beloved philanthropist, devoted husband, veteran, and eternal optimist, passed away after a little over a century of life defined by generosity, curiosity, and joy. Born in Gray, Kentucky, in 1924, Oakley learned early the value of hard work and resourcefulness. A natural businessman since childhood, he was shaped even more profoundly by his service in Europe during World War II—a period that left him with a lifelong hatred of war and a deep appreciation for the humanity he saw in people everywhere.

After returning home, Oakley began a long career as a traveling salesman, crisscrossing the East Coast by train, bus, and taxi, always happiest when meeting new people. He delighted in bringing joy to others, whether by offering a warm compliment, brightening a stranger’s day with a simple “Smile!”, or reminding those around him that “it’s always darkest before it gets light.”

Oakley’s life changed forever when he met Eva, the love of his life, during a hurricane in Miami. They married at St. Patrick’s Cathedral in New York and later built a legacy of giving through the Eva G. Farris Foundation. Their philanthropy—supporting schools, libraries, hospitals, and the arts—has touched countless lives throughout the region. Oakley often said he remained guided by his mother Estel’s belief that “there is good in every person.”

A man of keen insight and boundless hope, Oakley embraced each morning believing “something good is going to happen today.” Even after a century of life, he insisted that the highlight of his life was “still a work in progress.” He championed the idea that people everywhere want the same things, “love, respect, and a decent way to make a living” and he encouraged others to be positive, help one another, and use common sense. His contributions were widely recognized, including by leaders across Kentucky. As Governor Andy Beshear shared, “Kentucky is better off from all of Eva and Oakley’s work. Oakley is a reminder to us all that our job is to do good things and be kind to one another.”

Oakley is preceded in death by his cherished wife, Eva, with whom he shared a lifetime of purpose and partnership. He is survived by his son, Bill Scheyer, and numerous grandchildren, great grandchildren, cousins, nephews, nieces and friends. He leaves behind a legacy of kindness, philanthropy, and hope. Reflecting on his extraordinary life, Oakley once laughed and said he was “looking forward to the second 100 years.” His spirit, optimism, and generosity will continue to inspire all who knew him.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:00 a.m. on Friday December 12th at The Cathedral Basilica of the Assumption, 1140 Madison Avenue, Covington, KY 41011. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to The Carnegie at 1028 Scott Boulevard, Covington, 41011 to support creation of a Meditation Garden in Oakley and Eva’s honor. A celebration of Oakley’s life will be scheduled for early summer, 2026.