Pamela Lee Condry

Pamela Lee Condry obituary, Vinita, OK

Pamela Lee Condry

Pamela Condry Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Burckhalter-Highsmith Funeral and Cremation Service - Vinita on Sep. 16, 2025.

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Pamela Lee Condry, 77-year-old Vinita resident, passed away early Saturday, September 13, 2025, near Catoosa in an automobile accident. She was born on August 27, 1948, in Oklahoma City to Noble and Marilyn (Gittings) Banks. Pam attended school at Capitol Hill in Oklahoma City. She was united in marriage to Carl L. Condry on December 28, 1970, in Amarillo, Texas, they moved to Vinita in 1976, where Carl owned and operated Condry Auto Sales. Pamela was a devoted member of the Emmanuel Church in Vinita. She loved cooking for church dinners, going to see friends and church members that were in the hospital, reading and studying her bible, working in her yard, mowing her grass, and caring for her flowers. Pam also really enjoyed going to amusement parks and riding the roller coasters. You never saw Pam without her hair fixed and dressed up for any occasion, especially her date night with Carl. Most of all she loved her family, specifically her grandchildren who were her greatest joy.

Preceding her in death, her parents; husband Carl L. Condry; daughters, Treena Marie Kessinger, Lawanna Danice Clark; siblings, Nobel Banks and Sean Banks; grandchildren, Cory Edwards and Deadra Parrett; and great-grandchild Sonny Thomas.

The family includes her children, Travis Condry, David Phipps, Charity Dawn Condry, Carla Jean McConnell and husband Dennis Russell McConnell; siblings, Mickey Banks and wife Glenda, Tony Banks and wife Maryann; twenty grandchildren; twenty-eight great-grandchildren; and seven great-great-grandchildren.

Casket bearers will be Carl Condry, Antonio Castaneda, Edgar Segura, Colt Grass, Andre Williams and Connor Condry.

The family will receive friends from 6-8 p.m. on Thursday, September 18, 2025, at the Burckhalter-Highsmith Chapel in Vinita.

The celebration of life will be held on Friday, September 19, 2025, at 11:00 a.m. at Emmanuel Church in Vinita, Pastors Tim Lunk and Jerry Ogdon are officiating. Interment will follow at the Carselowey Cemetery southeast of Vinita. Online condolences may be made at www.highsmithfh.com or on the funeral home Facebook page. Arrangements are in the care of the Burckhalter-Highsmith Funeral and Cremation Services of Vinita. "Vinita's only locally family owned and operated funeral home."

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