Pamela Kalke Obituary
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HILTON- Passed away peacefully on April 24th, 2023 at age 53. Survived by her loving husband Ken; children Courtney Oliveri-Brooks, Kelly Oliveri-Brooks, Nicholas, Michael & Christopher Kalke; sisters Carin (Mark) Laniak, Stacey (Kurt) Morrison, Jodi (Vic) Oliveri-Trebules, Gina Alessi, Alyssa Shumway; brother Biagio Oliveri; father William (Jackie) Oliveri & mother Judith Oliveri; 6 grandchildren Mason, Malena, Maeve, Brady, Riley & Josephine; many nieces nephews, cousins and friends.
Visitation will be held on Saturday, April 29th from 3 PM to 5 PM at the funeral home 1411 Vintage Lane, Rochester, NY 14626.
Pam had a fun-loving vibrant personality. You knew exactly where you stood with her. She loved spending time with all her family, traveling, watching her daughters cheer, her sons play football and having dinner with Ken. As a partner with Ken at Total Comfort Heating and Air she put endless amounts of time and effort to help build a successful company. Pam wanted everyone to know that she "fought strong" until the end.
She will be deeply missed by everyone that knew her.
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Larry Gaudieri
May 9, 2023
I'm so sorry to hear of Pam's passing. Pam and her family lived across the street from me for many years. We grew up going to the same bus stop every morning, I went swimming in the pool in the summer and spent many hours smoking cigarettes, listening to music. Pam and her family continued their friendship with me in our adult years too. She came to Florida to visit us and we had a lot of fun. Later, we connected with Pam & Ken and their children, spending time with them in Florida when they visited. Pam was a sweet, loving, sparkling, and a unique, and truly genuine zest for life, family and friends. While recently staying in Rochester with my family, we found an Air BnB on Cherry Rd, very close to where Pam initially grew up. We (my family, and I) offer our deepest condolences to you in this time of sadness. We love you and you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Ruth and Curt
April 29, 2023
So sorry to hear about Pam. She was a very warm loving person. We always enjoyed talking to her and Kenny at Dave and Kayes get together. She loved her children and enjoyed her grandchild. Her kids and Kenny have a great loss as she was the love of their life. She will be missed by everyone. She left alot of memories in our hearts to remember her. Curt and Ruth
Romeo Delucia
April 26, 2023
I'm so sorry to hear this I knew Pam and her sisters when we teenagers she was always smiling, my condolences to her family and especially her husband Kenny.
Kathie Rieger
April 25, 2023
I´m so very sorry to hear this! Praying for your family.
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