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Stephen Pereira
February 16, 2026
So sad to just learn of Pat´s passing. I first met him at Decatur Market years ago and later had the good fortune to work with his wife Elizabeth and daughter Janet. My condolences to the family. May he rest in peace.
Karen Sullivan
August 12, 2024
Quality´s high, prices are low, Decatur Market´s the place to go.
Peter Stinchfield
May 1, 2024
Pat - Thank You for the "Happy & Smiling" memories & food service you provided for my Grandparents "Will & Angie" & Parents from the 60's to the Early 90's ! blessings on the family in Jesus Peter Stinchfield
Margaret Keohane Smith
May 1, 2024
Growing up in the Project in East Arlington many of us had no cars and very limited incomes. There were no Food Stamps back then and no food pantries. Don't know what we would have done without Pat and Decatur Market. His cheerfulness was always a great blessing to me when I went to the store for my Mom. Heaven has gained a truly amazing man.
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L jastremski
April 22, 2024
May his memory be a blessing
Anna Luca
April 22, 2024
Elizabeth, Amy &Virginia
With your families. We are truly sorry to hear of Pats passing a gentleman laid to rest. Anna & Pat Luca (Perth)
Theresa Comeau
April 19, 2024
Elizabeth and family, sincere condolences from the Oppedisano family (Tony & Theresa) of Somerville. May Pat rest in Paradise
Richard DeCaprio
April 19, 2024
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.our prayers are with you
I will always remember Pat as
a wonderful man.
Richard DeCaprio
April 19, 2024
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.our sincere condolences for a wonderful man.
Rick Murray
April 19, 2024
Have a drink with Harry James
Maureen Hudson Marchant
April 19, 2024
Dearest Auntie Teegie & family, My sincerest condolences to the nicest Uncle a girl could have. He was the best. I'll always remember Decatur Market and all the good times we had there and at your home. Without a doubt you have definitely gotten your wings. Fly high and keep an eye over all of us. Tell Maura and Don I love and miss them and give Aunt Mama a kiss from me. With all my love always Maureen Hudson Marchant
Kathi Murphy Wilgren
April 19, 2024
Steve and family
So very sorry to hear of the passing of your dad. Sending thoughts and prayer's to all
Bob Radochia
April 18, 2024
Elizabeth & Family,
We are sorry to hear about your loss of Pat, He gave much to promote the well being of the Arlington community over the years. He will be missed by so many people.
Thank you Pat for you friendship and may you Rest In Peace.
Bob & Joyce Radochia
Ray Kelley
April 18, 2024
Elizabeth -Family -So very sorry -Ray -Ruth Kelley
Gene and Shannon Hecklinger
April 18, 2024
Our deepest sympathies for Pat´s passing. He was a jolly soul with a kind heart. May your many memories give comfort and peace.
Russell Marie
April 17, 2024
Dear Lisa& Family sending prayers of strength to you all. Honoring his service. Marie Russell
Michael C Rivera
April 17, 2024
Thank you for your service to country Sir. Job well done and now it is time to Rest In Peace. May God Bless you.
~ Salute ~
VFW Post 1012 Medford, MA.
Dick George 101st Airborne Division
April 17, 2024
Requiescat in pace amica meus! Ave at que vale!
Lynne Smith Spencer
April 17, 2024
REST IN PEACE Pat THANK YOU for the MANY MANY YEARS YOU PERSONALLY kept food on our table. And ALWAYS with LOVE, KINDNESS and UNDERSTANDING. You WERE ALWAYS SO VERY GENEROUS TOO SO MANY. And the way YOU took care of our ENTIRE COMMUNITY. And though I was young, it did not go unnoticed. Heaven is BLESSED to have you come home. YOU ARE an ANGEL Pat Oppedisano . Where quality is high and prices are low Decatur Market is the place to go. My condolences to your family. YOU "SIR" Will surely will be missed...
Lynne' Smith/Spencer
Glenn Scott Smith
April 17, 2024
Pat was a great man who helped take care of many families in times of need, mine included. Incredible family man and a pillar of the community. Our sincere and heart felt condolences go out to his family. RIP Pat
Glenn (Scotty) Smith
Gladys Nahigian Partamian
April 17, 2024
Pat was the best of the best. A childhood friend of my brothers Warren and Nish Nahigian, who grew up together sharing many things including owning their own grocery stores, one the Decatur Market and the others the Monument Market. Pat is the last of the Arlington independent grocer who did so much for so many quietly and with compassion. Rest in Peace our good friend.
Jim Considine, Charlestown
April 17, 2024
Thank you for your service to our nation. May you rest in peace.
David Smith
April 16, 2024
A great man, who did so much for my family growing up. RIP Pat
Denny Cahill
April 16, 2024
Where quality is high and prices are low, heaven is surely the place you will go.
You will always be remembered, Pat.
You were a great man!
My condolences to the entire family.
Leisha Westbrook Martin
April 16, 2024
I have such fond memories of discussing Harry James and the Beatles with Pat. He and Elizabeth were my adopted family during college and the whole family are among my favorite people. Pat´s chipper and kind personality is already dearly missed. May his loved ones be comforted by his beautiful memory.
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